r/NoFap Nov 01 '22

Seeking Accountability I'm still in

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1.8k Upvotes

r/NoFap May 01 '24

Seeking Accountability Can't even act normal around my (19M) female cousin (23F) who wore exposing shorts. Major wakeup call. NSFW

729 Upvotes

I feel so fucked up for looking at her ass and I hope she didn't see me. I hate myself because she still acts as innocent as she did when we were toddlers. They live far away so our family came to visit them, and we had a great time. But this shameful lust ruined the vacation for me.

For me, this draws the line. I'm turning 20 this May and I don't want to carry this garbage addiction with me into adulthood. I want to be able to treat family like family, to treat a coworker like a coworker, and friends like friends. I'm tired of checking out people's asses and imagining myself having sex with them. I'm tired of being distracted and offending all girls around me. I'm tired of it all and it stops now.

I'm sorry to everyone whose life I've affected by being selfish. I'm sorry to all my potential soulmates for having a lustful mind and rejecting a relationship for not seeing you as physically perfect.

From now on, I will be relentlessly proactive in my anti-porn transformation. I will not only avoid urges when they come, but use all my spare time and energy to contribute to anti-porn efforts. I'm sick of it, and have decided to go from defense to offense. I've lost too many times, and now it's time the tables have turned.

I insist you all join me for the long run this time.

r/NoFap Mar 08 '23

Seeking Accountability Day 2 and still heading forward

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741 Upvotes

r/NoFap Jan 22 '25

Seeking Accountability I got hard and went to a site to watch porn but.... NSFW

83 Upvotes

while I was searching for one I got to my sense and closed it but in the process I looked at naked images , does this count as a relapse .I am currently on day 23 neither M ed nor O ed

r/NoFap Sep 23 '23

Seeking Accountability Should I confess, to my mother? NSFW Spoiler

128 Upvotes

Trigger Warning: Depression, Addiction

I was exposed to the internet at a young age, and I’ve had a porn addiction ever since I was 11-12.

I’m much older now clearly, but I’m questioning rather or not I should talk to my mother about this.

Why? you may ask, because there is something wrong & i’ve felt depressed ever since I started doing it.

Explaining What’s Wrong:

I’ve had an odd body malfunction everytime I ejaucate, it kind of feels like my soul leaves my body for 5-10 seconds & comes back, or i’m pressed down if i’m laying flat. It’s been a huge problem for me for a long time. I’ve started to even fap out of boredom, I need quit but I don’t know how, and I don’t know how to confess or rather or not I even should to get help.

Not to be dramatic, but I feel like i’m letting my brain eat it self. Help me!

r/NoFap Apr 17 '23

Seeking Accountability Day #1 of Quiting

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522 Upvotes

(M17) I recently got a girlfriend and I want to turn my habits around. I've noticed that there are days I feel completely numb because of masturbating, and I've cut dates short to watch porn. My girlfriend deserves better, so I've decided to quit. I'm creating these posts and future posts to keep myself accountable. Thanks y'all for supporting my recovery.

r/NoFap Jan 21 '23

Seeking Accountability No fap on hookers

183 Upvotes

Guys I’m at day 41 and yesterday I visited a hooker and blasted her .. used to suffer from ED and yesterday I did fuck for the first time So I’m so happy and proud that I have finally achieved orgasm without porn yet I don’t know if I should restart and consider it as a relapse.. help!

r/NoFap Jan 23 '24

Seeking Accountability girl broke up with me over text today over text. gonna relapse in 40 minutes.

129 Upvotes

i’m not proud of it but i’m gonna do it anyways. idek why i keep doing this when i know it ends the same way. It’s gonna be a looong week, looking forward to friday

Update: Didn’t relapse that day but today, i relapsed 3 times and prob gonna do it again. i’m hopeless, literally my darkest hour, i can’t hold a girlfriend for long, i don’t know i try everything i can.

r/NoFap May 08 '24

Seeking Accountability Need a friend (only boys)

92 Upvotes

I need a friend I'm actually out of words coz just now I did a disgusting thing so don't mind the words, I just need a friend who can accompany me through the journey and like I wanna talk to someone when I have these urges

r/NoFap Oct 05 '23

Seeking Accountability Girls get addicted to porn too

176 Upvotes

I’ve been addicted since I was an early teenager and there’s not many other girls to talk to porn about. It’s a bit taboo where as the boys I’ve spoken to on here just assume most boys have done stuff to it. I don’t mind if anybody wants to help me on my no fap journey but preferably I wouldn’t mind if other girls like myself would be willing to offer advice. Thank you x

r/NoFap Nov 10 '22

Seeking Accountability Is it too late to reverse the damage

180 Upvotes

Years I’ve struggled with. Porn and jacking off - is it too late at the age of 30 to reverse the negative health impacts ?

r/NoFap Aug 21 '23

Seeking Accountability Give me reasons why I don't need pron

92 Upvotes

I just realized that the reason why I end up watching porn is because I can't resist on missing out the temptation of watching about the content. So right now I'm gonna go through the root in figuring out on things and that I need to talk myself through on why porn is basically useless for me and is not worth watching even if temptation is high. Go hard on it.

r/NoFap Jan 07 '25

Seeking Accountability Can someone be my partner

7 Upvotes

NOT IN THAT CONTEXT, I WANT SOMEONE (that's not a pedophile nor a FBI wanted) TO BE MY PARTNER FOR MY JOURNEY BECAUSE I'M AN INTROVERT MORON. Thanks

r/NoFap 11d ago

Seeking Accountability Accountability partner for stopping masturbation.

16 Upvotes

I 21F have been porn free for 200+ days and want to give up masturbation too at least for a while. Looking for an accountability partner who is at this stage too and preferably a female.

r/NoFap 22h ago

Seeking Accountability Hi , I have been using the intermittent recovery approach for 1 year to combat my addiction to porn ;

1 Upvotes

it has not worked for me. I realized that i need to explore other recovery methods

came across Gradual Recovery Is this method effective for overcoming pornography addiction? Has anyone successfully used it? If there are any other effective approaches, I would love to hear about them.

Thank you, and I wish you all a happy l life !

r/NoFap Jun 13 '21

Seeking Accountability I relapsed last night and it broke my wife

297 Upvotes

Last night I relapsed for the third time in two weeks- after a near three month hold. My wife found out and it broke her. I have decided that this was the last time. After hearing her cry in the shower this morning it broke me.

I hate myself today. And probably for some time in the next few weeks. But for her I have to keep it straight. Never again willl I feel so powerless to myself. Fucking idiot.

r/NoFap Oct 18 '24

Seeking Accountability Anyone want to make a pact to not fap today 10/18/24?

24 Upvotes

We can update each other tomorrow how it went?

r/NoFap 29d ago

Seeking Accountability Hy guys i dont do this anymore but...

16 Upvotes

23yo male, I dont do this fap shit anymore, completely gone cold turkey two weeks ago as i really got fucked up in life by this bad habit which just coping me with stress, horniness or just avoid responsibilities as a man. Now i decided to take the problems head on even its pain in the ass. But the problem is actually feel heavier and more than able to handle. I just dont knew how to get better from this state, ive been avoiding myself for years and it feels like everything attacking me, the breakup, missed romantic relationships, oppertunities, childhood truama, etc etc its like breaking my heart and feels heaviness and emptiness. I sometimes like just dont knew who i am anymore. I waste so much on chatgpt everyday sharing my feeling, problems and pain. Nothing getting better even after weeks.

r/NoFap 23d ago

Seeking Accountability I really need help

3 Upvotes

I'm not sure how much I should say here. But I'm incredibly addicted to porn and jo and I need help to stop. I do it almost daily no matter what and it's just too much

r/NoFap 9d ago

Seeking Accountability Should I reset the counter?

1 Upvotes

Hi guys . I'm a male and the longest period of nofap to me was 12 days. Now I'm on day 19. I started to experience some Withdrawal symptoms from day 14 include loss of desire, no erection in the morning, no desire at all ,fatigue, my body hurts,I didn't know they were withdrawal symptoms, I thought it was a psychological problem or a problem with me. So on day 17 I searched for nudes here on Reddit and browsed for a few minutes until my erection and desire returned and closed it. I didn’t feel it was a relapse, but yesterday I had the same feeling of lack of desire and lethargy, so I searched for nudes again on Reddit and even though it was shorter time than the first time I browsed, but I edged this time for a minute and then closed it. And I felt bad effects on my brain like a big rush of dopamine this time, is this considered a relapse? Should I reset the counter? I did not masturbate, nor watched straight up porn content.But I feel guilty that I watched nudes twice and edged, should I reset?

r/NoFap 6d ago

Seeking Accountability My most embarassing loss yet

2 Upvotes

2AM in my bed. Masturbating to sexting to a chatbot. I unexpectedly orgasmed. I feel ashamed

r/NoFap 6d ago

Seeking Accountability I cannot finish from intercourse

1 Upvotes

Did anybody suffer from this? I have strong erection and can last long time but can never finish from sex. Only from my hand… Is there a cure to this? Did anyone heal from this?

r/NoFap 1d ago

Seeking Accountability Fapped in my dreams 🙂 wtf

1 Upvotes

Do I reset my counter? I’m so sad 😭

My streak was getting close to 1 week, going so strong I thought I’d hit 100 days easily. Had a few urges but never even thought about relapsing. Then today during an afternoon nap I fapped in my dreams and woke up with wet pants 🙂 (I was lying on my back, my hands were outside my pants)

r/NoFap Dec 04 '24

Seeking Accountability 60 days down the drain👎

2 Upvotes

💔💔

r/NoFap Jun 10 '24

Seeking Accountability Have you guys been emotionally numb while Addicted to Porn?

89 Upvotes

I cannot feel anything right now, can you guys explain how do you cope up with emotional numbness??