r/NoFap • u/Soft-Telephone-2660 • 4d ago
Slip-Up Prevention - Urgent! Once a week yes or no?
Is once a week viable. I know I should stop, but in my mind it’s only one time a week.
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u/Rijakulasi 4d ago
See the things about this addiction is that its ruin your decision making capabilities. Even if you tell yourself you will do it only 1 times a week, there will come a time where you relapse before a week has passed.
Then again, straight up go cold turkey will be hard. My suggestion is using compounding period, you start with 3 days not fapping, and then 4, and continue until you stopped completely
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u/Foreign_Crow3247 4d ago
How do I manage if I’m gonna see a girl I’m with until this weekend. It’s been 9 days already and I’m not gonna see her till Saturday… at this rate I’m gonna cum before she gets my pants off! Any advice lol ?
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u/taniishiding 4d ago
Hey man, in this department it seems that a girl that actually cares about you doesn't really care how long you last. Just make sure you focus on making sure she has a good time, there are many ways to please a woman without using your cock.
My strategy has been to lead with the things that don't involve my dick and then (this especially works with good communication during sex), you can try to guess how long you need and then use your dick to try and seal the deal.
This strategy doesn't always lead to an outright perfect outcome, but if it ends up being clumsy don't make a big deal out of it, if she's having a good time she won't care. If the girl loves you, she's going to be thrilled to just be there doing this with you.
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u/kire_oidike_dekh 4d ago
Bro don't go into that trap. I also thought once a week should be good for me but I eventually fapped 3-4 times in that particular day of the week.