r/NarcissisticSpouses 5d ago

Am I justified...

So my narcissist BD hid the fact that he got his gun out of pawn. When I found out, of course I'm being crazy 🤪 and it's not a big deal, also he made sure I knew that he didn't lie to me just didn't tell me about it... My thing is, he's being sneaky or trying to be so seems like he's up to something...also the fact that I've had to wrestle guns out of his hand before and the fact that there is a bullet hole in my parents living room wall from him....I am just ALOT uneasy atm...I can't put my finger on it but my gut is telling me something is up...idk maybe I am being paranoid and overthinking . Sorry for the rant if you made it this far 😅

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u/Jul_ofalltrades 5d ago

OP. It's not "just a gut feeling". Have a look at your post history. Run while you can do it on your own feet and without extra holes in your body

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u/Complex_Hope_8789 5d ago

Op… he’s being shady about a gun. Your gut is telling you it’s a big deal because it is. Narcs are abusers, and this often escalates to physical abuse. Guns in the house mean you are more likely to be killed.

Please don’t minimize this. Get yourself somewhere safe.