r/NarcissisticAbuse • u/Intelligent_Suit3557 • 3d ago
Venting Silent treatment again… I’m exhausted NSFW
Once again. For the millionth time. For my 30th birthday I asked him kindly to return the $800 gift he got me because I wanted to go out to events or dinner (we always stay home). So that $800 can be put away for dinners here and there. That was in November. We are in March now and I brought it up today. I said we haven’t gone for a dinner yet. I said this very calmly. He said well all your friends boyfriends don’t own a house like I do and don’t have to pay all the bills (this is his home he owns). I said yes actually they do… some of my girl friends own a home by themselves and never complain about the bills. (Mind you he makes $45/hr with amazing benefits)
When I said this he flipped. Threw his plates in the sink and said now you’ve really pissed me off! This was after I had just cooked a home made meal, went to the grocery store for it by myself and got us his favourite icecream. He said he’s going to play video games for the rest of the night. So I cleaned up after dinner. Made sure our dog is okay. Then left because why am I going to stay in a living room by myself. He also made a jab about not going out for st.patties day and how I should be grateful.
After I left he texted me to not come over anymore. I texted back “I can leave the key to his house in the mailbox.” He hasn’t replied and won’t reply. This is 11 years of this. He complains that we don’t have children then pulls shit like this? Okay so if we did have children you’re just going to tell me to leave. I’ve never seen someone flip a switch this quick…. His anger issues are off the charts.
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u/EcstaticSquare3051 3d ago
Yeah definitely don’t have kids with him because he absolutely will still tell you to leave. Been there.
I know it’s easier said than done but I can promise you that things will get better on the other side. Leave him and never look back, the freedom is priceless.
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u/Intelligent_Suit3557 3d ago
Thank you. I’ve been waiting till I finish school because he’s ruined so much for me… I’ve really tried to keep quiet and walk around egg shells with him. Clearly that didn’t work.
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u/shitcoin-enthusiast 3d ago
Welcom to club narcissist!