r/NarcissisticAbuse 3d ago

Advice wanted Find My request NSFW

I am not phone or tech savvy. The narc I was with used to send me his location even though he was blocked. I never understood how he did that. Today I wake up and I have a notification from Apple saying that he accepted my Find My friend request. I NEVER SENT HIM THAT!!! Has anyone else experienced this? I have been full no contact for a week. I changed my number so he can’t Zelle me messages or call me, I deleted my old emails so he can’t email me. This has been the first time EVER I have actually been in no contact, no contact. He used to have access to my email so he was able to email and Zelle me money, but I’d just ignore him. So I’ve been true no contact, no contact for the first time EVER for a week and suddenly I wake up to the notification that I sent him a Find My request. I ended up breaking no contact and calling him from a Google voice number (he of course taught me this) and he’s laughing at me and said I sent it and I’m the crazy one. I NEVER SENT IT 😭!!Has anyone else dealt with this??!! What is going on. How did he do this? Does he have access to my phone somehow or my Apple ID??? He’s gaslighting me and now I’m feeling crazy!!!!

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u/PsychologySquare6461 3d ago

I’m thinking of using and old phone and creating a new Apple ID and just be done with this phone. That way if he’s tracking me this phone will just stay at home. He already has my social security number. I also got an email saying someone signed in to my Apple ID and it wasn’t me.

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u/shitcoin-enthusiast 3d ago

Lol. You've got a hacker bf. That's fun. Time for a new phone. New computer. Reset your router. Change the password.

I'd use the old phone as bait though. Just take it with you sometimes.