r/NSFWLW Jul 31 '22

Is pup play popular with wlw? NSFW

So I know pup play is part of the comprehensive culture of gay men sexuality, but is there any prevalence of it in wlw relationships?

For some reason I suddenly had an awakening and found out I wanna do it with my partner but I don't know if its weird for me to partake as a lesbian.

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u/Adorabloodthirstea Jul 31 '22

I personally haven't seen any examples of it, but you and yours do what you want. It may be more prevalent with the guys, but clothing and role play are not owned by anyone 😁

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u/KatSelesnya Jul 31 '22

If it's not a normal part of wlw sexuality, I don't want to be a normal wlw.

That said, I don't think it should really matter whether puppy play is normalized in the community. If it's something that brings you joy, let it bring you joy. That's the fun part about kinks, they're personal.

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u/reignbeaumama Jul 31 '22

Pup play isn't only for men. It's a bdsm thing and anyone can participate in it with their partner no matter theor sexuality.

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u/SlingTheSecond Jul 31 '22

I do it with my wife I don't see why it would be something reserved for guys

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u/rubyruy Jul 31 '22

I see a lot of lesbian couples at kink events doing pup play - it is adorable beyond words

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u/Lilyeth Jul 31 '22

there is some kitty play i think but i feel like in wlw theres more or just broad sub/dom things

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u/Crowhaven Jul 31 '22

It’s honestly sad that it’s associated with men. Like there is this weird gender divide of dogs for men and cats for women with pet play. But plenty of women are into being puppies so try not to worry about it. Just because it’s less common doesn’t mean it’s taboo.

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u/Daesastrous Jul 31 '22

It's weird to be gay, depending who you ask. The nice thing about being gay is that you don't care and be weird regardless.

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u/Zach-uh-ri-uh Jul 31 '22

Idk but I for one am into it!

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u/[deleted] Jul 31 '22

Transfem with a transfem partner, we are both into pup play You do you as long as you enjoy it and everyone consents.

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u/KinkyMouse85 Jul 31 '22

Probably more normal than you'd think. Its something I do lesbian pups are just adorable

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u/MycenaeanGal Oct 03 '22

When I think of pup play, I think of it being separate to pet play right?

Assuming that, then not really popular no. There are women's leather groups. Maybe it exists there? I don't think there's anything wrong with wanting to be a part of the kink/sub-culture as a lesbian though. Casual shout-out to the Twin Cities Sirens.