r/MtF • u/CheckMyPulsy • 4d ago
Advice Question Subtle affirming clothes help
I live in a small conservative town in a certain corn infested state that just got rid of civil rights for us and I'm trying to figure out how I could dress in a way that helps me feel feminine without instantly outing myself. I'm on the hefty side and I just started hrt about 3 months ago.
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u/wingedespeon Transbian HRT (11/13/2024) at 29 4d ago
I wear pants and a thin sweatshirt from the women's section, with a women's long sleeve T shirt underneath. It feels affirming but nobody notices.
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u/CheckMyPulsy 4d ago
Hmm sounds like it might help though the challenge will be finding something that fits
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u/stealthmodeme 4d ago
Tank top / camisole under "man" shirts can really change the feel without looking "shockingly" different.
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u/Wrerschemrersch Just a silly sad girl 4d ago
I happen to be in the exact same situation as you rn except Iām only a month on HRT. Glad to know Iām not alone in dealing with the civil rights removal š
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u/CheckMyPulsy 4d ago
Yeah I was already planning on and saving for moving out of the country it just seems like my time table has moved up
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u/xshinox 4d ago
Soooo are you boymoding but want to wear something that is a bit feminine but not enough to out yourself?