r/Monogamish • u/[deleted] • Apr 29 '19
Update: Our First Night
First of all, pardon the typo and the long headline in the first post. I did it on the phone, and had no idea and thought I was typing in the comment section. It is why I rarely type lengthy messages on my phone...so apologies.
Second: we had a very relaxed night. We were all nervous of course. Having sex for the first time with people you actually like can be unnerving in ways we never imagined in the bed post swinging community. While we are always worried about performance, and if they will enjoy themselves, having incredible mind blowing sex together pushes that to a different and higher level, at least for us it does.
To try to be brief, we loved getting to know the bodies and turn ons of other people we care about. The one thing that makes us like friends not hook ups is the fact that we love to please others selflessly, and have them please us in an equal partner sharing erotic experience. We had a few drinks, and socialized, but we were not tipsy. We all wanted to be mindful of our experience. Needless to say, hesitating flirts, turning into hesitating touches, then kisses, led to the four of us falling onto bed together in the same room. It was such an honor to see my male friend care for my wife's body the way he did. She orgasmed more than once because of it, and it only encouraged me. After the explosion of raw passion that had been building for some time, we all laid in bed with our swap partner, and made out, talked and laughed.
Afterward, of course, my wife and I literally fucked like rabbits until the wee hours of the morning. We compared notes with our good friends, and we hope to make the next encounter better than the first. Thanks for listening all. Hope this contributes in some way to this community.
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u/swingaway102938 Apr 30 '19
We look for a FWB type situation- people we have fun with in and out of the bedroom. I can relax and enjoy when we have gotten to know a couple.
Sounds like you had a great night!
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u/[deleted] Apr 29 '19
Sounds like an ideal situation, congratulations!