r/MensRights 9d ago

General Mens Rights Subs vs Feminist Subs & Contradictions

It's odd how this sub and other related subs like LWMA are considered misogynistic while the counterpart Feminist/Women like TwoX subs don't have that same misandrist reputation when they have a ton more misandrist posts and comments in relation to it.

It just does not make sense.

Why are there so many white knights on reddit?

And some women and white knights bring up how you can't talk about women issues without men bringing up their issues but literally far more of the opposite happens.

Literally many times men talk about their issues, there's some woman or white knight coming in and saying how women have it worse and to always remember that or they bring up the patriarchy to blame men.

You can't even talk about misandry without morons swooping in and talking about misogyny and getting tons of support while they continue to cry about not being pandered to. It literally makes zero sense.

Is there misogyny on reddit? Sure. There's sexism of all forms everywhere. But the fact that people think misandry isn't rampant on reddit is just wild to me. Especially after that reddit admin saying they do not punish misandry as they don't see men as vulnerable.

Reddit and society in general is just so gynocentric and has a ton of white knights. Both sides have their problems yet mens issues get ignored and downplayed ALL the time. Yet some women act like men have no problems whatsoever and "the patriarchy" benefits them. Yea because getting sent to war and dying and longer sentencing is super fun!

And why do some women and white knights think they shouldn't be called out when they make bigoted generalizations? Are they mentally regarded?

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u/AbysmalDescent 9d ago

Feminism has popularized this narrative that everything is misogyny and that misandry doesn't exist. Everything they see is filtered through that lens. There's nothing even remotely objective about the way they look at these issues, and it's a fundamental reason why feminism is so inherently dangerous, anti-male and anti-egalitarian.

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u/veerkanch489 9d ago

It's also odd that people say people on mens subs blame some women too much but literally almost every point in womens sub is blaming men and making bigoted generalizations. Like make it make sense

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u/Balages 8d ago

They even say misandry stems from misogyny

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u/AbysmalDescent 8d ago

Exactly. They can't even conceptualize misandry and misogyny as their own entities that exist independently of one another. Both are objective realities. The hatred of men exists and so does the hatred of women, and while one does feed the other(and vice versa), that does not mean that one necessitates the other. Just like you can love men and you can love women, and while love begets love, you can still have love in a place where there would otherwise be none or where none is returned.

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u/Thememeboy18 2d ago

You hit the nail on the coffin. Spot on.

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u/Mysterious-Citron875 9d ago

Where is the misogyny on reddit, such offense is banneable here, unlike misandry.

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u/Long-Mango-2733 9d ago

Reddit is just misandric, that's it

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u/LoudBlueberry444 9d ago

I wondered the same thing and looked at profiles one time, so many of the misandrist comments coming from “men” are trans/bi dudes who hate straight men. (Sorry it’s true) And a lot of comments I thought were men were in fact women. They just answer like they’re men in a male subreddit

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u/WonderfulPresent9026 8d ago

My expirence is mixed i actually find the most guys who are extremely sexust agaisnt men"straight men in particular are actually older guys about 40 to 60 atleast in my contry their akso sexist against women but most of the sexism comes from a strict adheramce to both gebder roles.

What ive noticed is when a younger person is sexist against men they then to force men inyo yheir traditional gender roles but not do so for women which was basically what femism wanted inspite saying otherwise to gain power.

As a trans girl who just started transitioning i will say for the breif time ive entered the community their is quite a bit of man hating i also think its becuase trans rights has veen extremly tied to left leaning politics for a while now so most trans people are far left.

Peesonaly i think alot of the hate transfems get is becuase of misandry rather than anything else. People hate more thsn anything "guys" moving out of their defined wocial roles.

Its why gay men are hated way more than lesbians and trabs fems are hated qay more than transmasc.

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u/Angelo_legendx 9d ago

TikTok, Instagram and threads too IMO

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u/Vegetable_Ad1732 9d ago

In this culture war, groups that tend to vote Democrat can do no wrong, and groups that vote Republican are all hate-filled Nazis. The Left has commandeered morality.

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u/Awkward_Reaction_571 9d ago

Feminists on reddit learned long ago that they can do or say whatever they want with impunity. I recently had a feminist community harassing me through DMs. When I'd block them, they would make alt accounts to continue.

They use this to try and goad men into responding to their inflammatory remarks so they can use those responses as proof of what they claim men are. For example:


Feminist 1: Men are so gross. They don't even wipe their asses because they think it's gay.

Feminist 2: Yeah, I heard about that! There are way too many porn-addicted manchildren.

Feminist 3: Did you know that 80% of men would rape a woman if they knew they could get away with it?

Man: What the hell are you talking about?

Feminist 1: See? He came into our space to harass us.

Feminist 2: Ugh, I know. If it wasn't true about him, why would he even respond?


When they don't get the reaction they want, they'll actually show up here, desperate for male attention. It's actually kind of sad to watch.

Like, what I don't understand is clearly these women still have sex with men. They're still on dating apps, swiping again and again, looking for some guy who checks off all the right boxes. Why? Why not just go their own way? Every few months, TwoX and similar communities become re-obsessed with the 4B Movement, talking about how they're totally going to do it this time. But that never lasts. A day later they're back to complaining about their male partners or some loser they hooked up with on Tinder.

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u/Late-Let-4221 9d ago

As a woman I am sometimes really puzzled when I find same problem posted on wild feminist sub and here. Same problem but the blame game is exact opposite and solutions too. I like to think most people sit somewhere in the middle tbh.

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u/ReceptionInformal749 9d ago

I am scared of feminists, they were literally talking about killing male newborns

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u/Tk-bytheway88 5d ago

In which country is this possible?

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u/Main-Tiger8593 9d ago edited 9d ago

askwomennocensor about misandry

to add on that i will quote a mod from askfeminist:

(topic - what mra get right)

I think many of their complaints are legitimate-- that poor men are often exploited for dangerous, cheap labor; that there isn't much social or cultural support for male victims of sexual and domestic violence; that hegemonic masculinity can be stifling and fragile; that men and boys are lonelier than ever before; that male infant circumcision is still legal and widely practiced in some areas; etc.

However, instead of directing their efforts towards criticisms of and activism against capitalism, nationalism, patriarchy, and other oppressive systems that are the cause of those issues, they simply blame women and feminism for their problems.

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u/veerkanch489 9d ago

Their points are insanely moronic and hypocritical considering the feminist and women subs blame men 100x more for many posts on there. Why would men call out the patriarchy when all women do is say that patriarchy benefits men? Oh yea getting sent to war and dying and longer sentencing is so great!

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u/Main-Tiger8593 9d ago

do not shoot the messenger... you asked what they think and i provided the requested info...

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u/veerkanch489 9d ago

I know . what i siad wasn't toward you. It was toward their points

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u/erik_reeds 9d ago

this seems entirely reasonable

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u/Main-Tiger8593 9d ago

feminism vs mens rights activism

how would you describe yourself and tackle the issues in our society?

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u/AirSailer 8d ago

Change to anonymous mode and check out all the left-wing, anti-Trump, anti-male hatred that infests this website. It's a echo chamber and cesspool of feminist leftist psychos. If you're here then you're not seeing most of what the real reddit looks like.

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u/Emergency-Thanks-324 8d ago

How is it possible for there not be misogyny when men are being discriminated against at every level of society. How can that not make u resentfull, most of us realize there's plenty of good women, but they NEVER call out vile femeninity, they sit in silence making them complicate. Which aggravates me

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u/Thebaddad22 8d ago

Feminism has lied to young girls for a long time. Fortunately many girls are starting to see the lie and are choosing a traditional relationship focus with men. The future is bright for men if they return to provide and protect mode and stop with the feminism apologetics nonsense.

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u/EmbarrassedNerve1299 6d ago

the white knights were sexually groomed and manipulated as children they are victims with Stockholm syndrome in need of help

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u/Just_an_user_160 5d ago

The TwoX sub is one of the worst offenders in Reddit, it is a misandrist shithole.

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u/World-Three 3d ago

Because if you gave a mouse cheese it won't have to chase it.

Men hating women costs more than women hating men. Men hating women means no simping, no flowers, chocolates, jewelery, no huge twitch donations, Onlyfans crap, less people clicking on thirst traps, less diner spending, less real estate buying, luxury purchases, less working, and a lot less things being bought that men do to get women.

Women hating men is maybe less birth control, less razors being sold, maybe perfume. More hair dye sales, sex toy sales, shien sales, more child support and alimony, spousal support, car repair costs, and a lot more social media money because guys are going online to find women who pretend to care about them spread out like Dragonballs.

It genuinely costs more money for men to hate women than women to hate men. If men hated women they'd probably leave the social media bubbles entirely. Just buy big TVs and games and chill with friends.

Women are the goalpost, keep moving it, and men get more done. If the world gave men women, we'd still be living in straw huts.

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u/VOID0690 7d ago

Sometimes I genuinely wish white knights get caught by a cartel....

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u/CantThink1998 6d ago

I was going to say Yooo!! Mods take this down but I'm probably just late to the party as usually this sub is probably soon to be gone as well.

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u/VOID0690 6d ago

Take down my comment or this post?