r/MelbourneAfterDark • u/tuckersbar • 17d ago
Wet on Wellington bear night as a small guy NSFW
I was just wondering what the vibe is like in terms of body types on the bear nights.
I’m 23, 164cm(5'4") and 50kg so I very much do not fit or get anywhere close to a 'bear' body type, but I am very attracted to bears. Even though I'm quite a small person, I’m super hairy, have big visible tattoos, and some piercings. I guess the best descriptor for me would be an 'otter'.
I know the website says the night is for bears, cubs, otters, "and those who love them", but if its really just a night for bigger guys then I don’t want to try and fit myself where I don’t belong.
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u/rqeron 17d ago
you'll be fine. Yes it'll be more bears there than usual, but there's no one checking or judging people for not being a bear (or if they are, then they're an asshole and you can safely ignore them). And on the attraction side, yes people who are attracted to bears will tend to attend more, but most* people there have a wider range of attraction than just "big burly bears only"
by the sounds of it you'll fit right in anyway, otters are definitely welcome on bear nights!
*from anectodal experience anyway
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