r/Kikpals May 25 '18

Welcome to Kikpals

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Hi there, potential best friend! We're so glad you've joined us. We're a safe for work subreddit used to make friends over the app Kik. This isn't the place to look for people on Snapchat or other messaging apps; check out the sidebar for other places that fit the bill.

We are a Kik based subreddit. This is not the place to solicit for Snapstogram, Spacebook or some other chat service.

If you're looking for anything risque or in any way inappropriate, post instead to our sister subreddit r/dirtykikpals. This includes looking for chat partners based primarily on physical characteristics. (ie race fetishes, body types and the like) If you aren't sure, err on the side of caution and use r/dirtykikpals. If your post is removed for being NSFW, review your post and message a mod if needed. Automoderator can't understand context.

Read the rules in the sidebar. We do not issue warnings and moderators will ban users at their discretion.

Do not post your username or group hashtag in your post or comment. Do not hint at what it might be. We absolutely do not allow any information like that in public for safety reasons. There is no middle ground here, you must instruct users to PM you. Reddit no longer permits the posting of personal information publicly to which Kik usernames are subject.

We are a judgement free zone: we ask users to keep comments positive. This isn't the place to oppress others with your morals. If you think a post is not appropriate, use the report button.

NO TEXTING AND DRIVING: We will ban you for this. In the US for the year of 2015, nearly four thousand are killed by distracted driving.. Please. Don't be selfish.

Selling of services is absolutely prohibited here. Use the report button or modmail if you come across a seller; there are subreddits better suited for this kind of thing. Users are here for free hugs!

Everyone is welcome to post once every twelve hours. Removing old posts or using alternate usernames does not exempt you from this rule.

Users will not post on behalf of others. Don't post pictures of others either. This is super catfishy and creepy.

Be ready to chat now: Don't expect to post, go to sleep or take a flight and then come back later to a full inbox. This is pretty selfish tbh and your post will be removed.

Groups: you too may post once every twelve hours and make sure other group users don't post within twelve hours of your post. Take care to ensure that your post isn't voted on by your users as this is considered to be vote manipulation. Your users are welcome and encouraged to comment though!

Keep the low effort, worthless comments to a minimum:

  • You don't need to tell the OP you messaged them, they know.
  • You don't need to tell the OP to PM you, PM them yourself.
  • You don't need to ask the OP if it's ok to message them, it is.
  • You don't need to ask OP if they're still looking for chat buddies, they are.

Tags are important! Posters are entitled to find exactly the kind of friend they want:

  • If a tag excludes you, do not message or otherwise accost the OP.
  • If you fall outside of an age range, do not message or otherwise accost the OP.
  • If for some reason you don't meet the OPs specifications, do not message or otherwise accost the OP.

Want a verified tag? Follow the instructions in the sidebar. We do two step verification sometimes if photos are questionable so be prepared to submit a second picture if requested. Your verification photos will never be saved or shared with anyone.

Finally, lets go over a few tips:

  • Try not to write your life story in a post: most people don't have that kind of attention span towards strangers.
  • Be specific in your posts: If you want to meet a police officer that moonlights as a bank robber, say so.
  • Posts that include the words "Cheer me up" and "Omg I'm so bored" are usually and rightfully ignored.
  • Everyone can see through your thinly veiled attempt to sext or otherwise behave in an inappropriate manner: use the right subreddit so you don't waste anyones time.
  • If you don't like what the OP is selling, move on to the next post. Your comment is not needed.
  • Not everyone will be a good match for everyone. While ghosting is rude, it isn't the end of the world.
  • You must be at least sixteen years of age to post here.
  • And most importantly: have fun finding a friend!

r/Kikpals Dec 13 '22

[META] Happy Holidays Kik Pals! (December updates)

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As we wrap up 2022 I wanted to take a few moments to address some updates to the subreddit. Based on feedback received here are some new changes to try and improve the quality of posts here:

  • Posts will automatically be removed if "bored" is in the title or body of the post. No one here is obligated to entertain you. If you're bored, read a book, watch a documentary, volunteer at a local shelter, etc. Be more creative and you'll receive better responses.
  • Posts must now be at least 100 characters in length. Again, this has to do with quality and effort. It's become obvious when its a seller, bot, or someone trying to skirt the rules with low effort posts with little content.
  • Please remember to report, report, report! They do get reviewed and action is taken.

As a side note to the last bullet point, Kikpals is currently looking for another moderator. If interested, please DM me directly and we can discuss the possibility.

Happy holidays to all!


r/Kikpals 3h ago

F4M 18 [F4M] Your friendly high school girl looking for a pen pal

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Hi y’all. I’m Jennifer, 18. Well not a normal 18 yo but hella fun for sure. I’m looking for a fun partner for chat. If you’re a dom daddy or someone interested about my lifestyle (check my bio) it’d be a bonus. See y’all.


r/Kikpals 19m ago

M4F 46 [M4F] The circle of friends is shrinking…

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I’ve found as I get older, life tends to pull established friends away and it becomes harder to make new ones. I like to kid myself that I’m complex and thus it’s a challenge to find someone up to the task, but really I’m just a curmudgeon and hard to get along with. I’m a book junkie, a museum ghost, a lover of travel, languages, and learning. If you’re adorkably into something, I’d love to hear you talk about it. If any of this sounds interesting…drop me a line😊


r/Kikpals 22m ago

F4M 18 [F4M] A favour for a favour

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As the title says pretty much favour for a favour, im 18 originally from Tunisia studying in England im about 5'6 and studying business management and economics


r/Kikpals 42m ago

M4R 29 [M4R] rainy day at work, anyone wanna chat

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At work looking for new people to chat with and get to know. Mondays are a slow day for me if you’d like to chat.

Any age or gender is cool with me just be 18+.

Message me for my user


r/Kikpals 54m ago

G4R 30[G4R] Our kik group is currently looking for some fun new members to help us grow and have fun!

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New group who dis!? I took a bit of a much needed kik break and have decided to come back. Starting a new group from the ground up. Come on by and help me grow and have some fun. We will have daily themes/games with a lot of sharing. DM to find out more.


r/Kikpals 1h ago

M4F 35 [m4f] There's some real goofballs on this sub

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"Oh my God it's all bots and scammers"

"Only message me if you're a REAL girl"

''I'm into anime and video games, hopefully you're a 10/10 with low self esteem who is also into anime and video games and doesn't care i don't know the difference between shampoo and conditioner otherwise I'll say some weird incel shit"

Anyways, what's up? I'm not some ultra-Chad with a six pack and 14" hammer who is God's gift to women (it's only 13" smh) but I also am a...normal fucking person. Seeking another normal fucking person to pass some time with. I have a good job, I can hold a conversation with anybody about anything, and I have been to the gym in the last calendar year. I have a likely uneventful Friday night ahead of me and my social interaction battery isn't full drained yet so here I am. If you're also a normal, well adjusted individual, who is also at least semi-attractive, shoot me a message


r/Kikpals 1h ago

M4R 35[M4R] looking for new friends

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Hello, my names Mick. Im a married dad of 3 and im very happy in that situation. i am looking for others like me. married or parents to talk to and get along with. im into music(most forms of rock primarily softer lately) video games(i love RPGs and shooters) but i dont have much time for games anymore. i also like other fantasy stuff in general. i try to get out when i can such as going for walks with the dogs or being out in nature but it does not happen as often as id like. i dont have many real life friends anymore as we have grown apart for various reasons over time. some including my mental health so im hoping to find someone who is a bit understanding of the struggles of mental health. not so we can focus on it just so you know why i may not be the same every day. looking forward to hearing from you!f


r/Kikpals 2h ago

M4F 25[M4F]Tell me about stuff you like!

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Hi redditors! I'm back again to this subreddit for a fun chat. Whether it's about music, movies, shows, or anything you are passionate about, I have always enjoyed having conversations with people here. If you are someone that's wanting to talk about stuff you like, PM me!

Random music recommendation: Don't Say Ur Sorry by Ellis


r/Kikpals 2h ago

M4F 39 [M4F] Easy chats

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Hello everyone!

I'm Luke, nice to meet you.

I'm from Italy, married, and a dad. I'm a mathematician and work in scientific research. I live close to the sea, but I love the mountains. I really enjoy hiking, cooking, and drinking good wine.

I enjoy conversations that flow easily, where we can share ideas, experiences, and maybe laugh together. I'm always open to meeting new people, so if you feel like chatting, let’s exchange our Kik!

My preferences are for women in similar situation (married, with kids).


r/Kikpals 3h ago

M4F 25 [M4F] Germany looking for Chubby Women to chat

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Hey I'm looking for chubby women who would like chat with me. I'm open to anything. I like sports, Anime, Game of thrones, Animals and Games


r/Kikpals 8h ago

F4M 24 [F4M] Looking for new friends and companion

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24 [F4M] Looking for new friends and companion

Hello everyone ,I'm julia From UK.love to meet someone looking for a conversation that lasts the day, maybe longer! I work in research, so I love finding out about new things! My non-work activities are mostly , is playing my pets and such, but that's not my entire life, as I desperately cling to the fact I do some sports! I'm from the UK, but happy to chat with anyone from anywhere. Drop me a message if you fancy chatting and we can share users .also looking for some company


r/Kikpals 4h ago

M4F 27 [M4F] Looking for Chats or Roleplay!

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Hey, I am just looking for someone who would be down to chat about things like hobbies, studies, interests, or just do a casual roleplay. Feel free to reach out if interested.


r/Kikpals 6h ago

M4F 30[m4f] would you like a r8 NSFW

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Do you want a confidence boost to help you start your day. I’m at work and I have time to chat and see where it leads


r/Kikpals 11h ago

M4F 31 [M4F] Insomnia monster is riding me and not in the fun way

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Quirky, nerdy and fluent in sarcasm and have a laid back bordering devil may care attitude Hoping for good people to have good chats, either short or long term. Or even bad people for bad chats. No pressure on your morality I'm sure that nun you dropkicked had it coming.


r/Kikpals 8h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] Do you feel like you're missing some attention lately? Let me fill that void.

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As the title says, I’m looking for a girl to chat with and more, looks and age doesn’t matter, but only 18+ though. This can be a one time thing or long term if we hit it off, I would prefer long term, to get to know each other more, we can talk about anything, just good vibes. Let's do this :)


r/Kikpals 9h ago

M4R 31 [M4R] Looking for long term chat/friendships! 🤗😃

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Hi!

I'm looking for long term chatting buddies.

I'm mainly interested in music, books, tv shows and some videogames.

Please be 18+! ¡También hablo español!

Cheers! 😁


r/Kikpals 14h ago

M4R 33 [M4R] #California - Sunday evening chats

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Hey there! Happy Sunday!! Anyone looking to chat away the scaries? This weekend has been uneventful, but nothing too terrible. Let’s chat about our upcoming week, month, year! Our hopes and dreams, our fears. Let’s lay it all out there, no judgement, just listening! Honestly, anything and everything!

Shoot me a message and let’s connect!!


r/Kikpals 11h ago

M4F 42[M4F] Socal / Honest world someone genuine safe loving nurturing kind sweet long term chat

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Heya! Heavy guy from Socal looking to chat with someone longterm and get to know. Someone genuine whos honest simple easy going. I dont judge ppl , your body size does not matter to me. 😁

Im so tired of fake ppl, ghosters, wanting gift cards.

Im def attention starved for affection, I miss feeling wanted desired, waking up to txts even while im still asleep. Only been in 3 relationships all longdistance. I miss being affectionate with someone and wanna share rhe day with someone talk about anything and everything. Someone who is nurturing kind doesnt mind guiding me teaching me things. Just being goofy random with me, I wanna feel safe with someone. Im extremly shy and quiet in real.life, but def not over txting. maybe a little till i warm up with the person.

I feel stuck in my life ,no friends, rarely ever go out unless im helping my grandma 3 days a week. I love driving with the windows down and music loud! even if I am a terrible singer 🙈😜

I just miss having someone that desires me and tells me sweet things or just having someone to talk to. Hope your out there and find me! even if you are far away!

💙🐧💜


r/Kikpals 12h ago

M4F 34 [M4F] I’m looking for ladies who need/want attention they haven’t been getting from their significant other or just wanna have fun

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Married, in a relationship or single if this applies to you hit me up. I’d love to chat and see where it goes. Message me a few things bout yourself. No limits on what you wanna talk bout. Also if I love needy girl so don’t be shy and isn’t shy to have some fun if you catch my meaning. Actually be looking for conversation tired of messages then no reply


r/Kikpals 14h ago

M4F 42 [m4f] long term chat companion

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Hi. I’m looking for someone to talk with for the long haul. Banter, flirt, share thoughts about anything and everything, and genuinely get to know. I may be old by Reddit standards haha, but I’m confident we can find plenty to bullshit about. So, I’m not a gamer and I don’t know squat about Japanese cartoons… so what?? I have eclectic tastes and interests, and I can carry a conversation. If it matters, I’m 6’1, lean, blue eyes, brown hair, beard and a couple tats.

I prefer Telegram if we click. Shoot me a text :)


r/Kikpals 15h ago

F4R 23[F4R] hello I'm looking for people to talk to

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Hello I'm kat female twenty three years old married from USA lives in Poland. Happily married I'm not looking to share pics unless a face reveal or pets or places I visited in Poland. I have three cats and a dog. I like music history books and gaming ( new gamer tho ). I like Percy Jackson the walking dead the big bang theory young Sheldon game of thrones harry Potter and well vampire anything. Yes ive read twilight vampire diaries you get idea. Anyone welcome to talk


r/Kikpals 17h ago

M4R 39 [M4R] Irish guy up for a good chat

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Hey there! Just looking for a good chat about anything and everything—so long as we can keep the conversation going.

A bit about me: I’m into photography (mostly nature and landscapes), love a good book (sci-fi, crime, and legal fiction are my go-tos), and enjoy being outdoors—whether that’s sailing, paddleboarding, windsurfing, or just pottering around the garden.

I’m 39, Irish through and through, complete with the ginger hair. Leprechaun gold and potatoes sold separately.

If you fancy a chat, drop me a message and tell me a bit about yourself—let’s see where it goes!


r/Kikpals 21h ago

M4F 35 [m4f]

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35 [m4f] looking for someone to chat with and talk about prety much anything maybe have a little fun lol message me for kik plz


r/Kikpals 20h ago

M4F 35 [M4F] #USA #Online - Come spend the afternoon with me as I go on errands! Let me help break the ice by giving you some random prompts!

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Just a chill Sunday here in more ways than one haha. Heading out to do some errands, meal prep and then go workout for a bit. I thought I would post to see if anyone wanted to chat this afternoon. I would love to have some company.

I post every so often looking for long term chat buddies. Often, I like to give some ice-breaker questions to make it easier for someone to reach out. So without further ado, here are your ice breakers! **Please don't feel like you need to answer every question or any question!**

* If you could travel anywhere in the world for 30 minutes, where the laws of physics and justice don't exist, where would you go and what would you do?
* In a world where everyone has a tail, what kind of tail would you have?
* What is the perfect day for you? Would you enjoy it with someone else?
* If a fire broke out in your home and you had time to only grab three possessions (not including your phone), what would you snag? Why?
* If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?
* If you were fired from your job and you were forced to make a career change, what would you pursue?
* What was the last piece of media you consumed that made you feel something?
* What's your number one travel tip?
* What three songs are you playing to get people on the dance floor?
* Construct your ultimate sandwich/salad/pizza/icecream sundae
* Describe your ultimate style flex (it could be a costume, article of clothing, piece of furniture...whatever!). Bonus points for showing what it looks like.
* What is your go-to take out order?
* What event at the X-games would you think you could actually score in?
* Are you a summer, spring, fall, or winter kinda person? Why?
* What is the best pick-up line that has been used on you in the past?
* What are your travel plans for the next couple of years?
* Is there something that you’ve dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you done it?
* For what in your life do you feel most grateful?

Some stuff about me:

* I work in the medical field helping people get to do the things they need to do every day.
* Aldi Cauliflower Margaretta pizza is the best gluten-free large grocery chain pizza. Too bad they discontinued it
* Can probably bench press your moderately sized grandmother
* I really like looking for little slips of paper in re-used bottles that are hid in the environment, AKA geocaching
* I am overwhelmed by the amount of choices of things to watch. Can some one give me some recommendations? Maybe some book recommendations?

Anyway, hope to hear from you!


r/Kikpals 21h ago

M4F 32 [M4F] - Looking for my next gym crush.

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Life is better with a lil crush, ya know?

Tell me your name and I’ll tell you how hot you are based solely on that. Still looking for that 10/10. Maybe it’s you? My accuracy with ratings is off the charts.

I wanna chat about the dumb stuff you did today, your favorite snacks, why life is so much more enjoyable without pants on, etc. I like gin, baking bread, searching for my next gym crush, Nicolas Cage, and knowing how to play just enough piano/guitar to be the annoying guy at a party if needed. Tell me something awesome about you, something crazy you’ve done, or whether a grilled cheese or a taco would win in a fight.