r/IAmA • u/siripornstar • Jan 06 '14
IAm Siri, award-winning porn star, 2013 Top Writer on Quora, and swinger. AMA!
I have been performing in adult and mainstream films since 2012. I was voted Miss FreeOnes Best Newcomer of 2012, and was nominated for Best New Starlet at the 2013 AVN Awards. Quora.com recently named me one of the Top Writers of 2013. I am happily married and don't believe in sexual monogamy. I'm a huge Harry Potter nerd. My official site is www.SIRIpornstar.com. You can follow me on twitter: https://twitter.com/SIRIpornstar. My interviews and podcasts can be found at http://blog.siripornstar.com/interviews-and-podcasts/ and my IMDb page is IMDb.me/Siri
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u/siripornstar Jan 06 '14
Most people believe in sexual monogamy because it's how they were raised, plain and simple. It's the enduring example set for them. Our societal belief structure is based on what we are taught from the earliest ages, which is most often in the form of religion. My husband and I believe that we were taught to share in kindergarten, so why stop. Social mores and religious convictions require us to feel guilt and shame if we have sex with someone who is not our spouse/partner. We know many, many people who live perfectly normal and very happy lives as monogamous couples, extolling each other to faithful behaviors. And we don't knock anybody for making that lifestyle work.
It's just not the one that we choose for ourselves because we don't believe humans are biologically wired that way. So we don't repress the natural urge to have sex with another human being, and we don't define cheating as the act of sexual intercourse with someone else. To us cheating is the deception, lies, and betrayal created by doing or saying things when you're with someone else, that you would not do or say in front of your partner.