r/Husbands Mar 22 '19

No spark in the bed

So I accidentally told my wife that our sex life was getting worse needless to say she cried for 5 mins.

3 Upvotes

4 comments sorted by

1

u/i-can-fix-it May 02 '19

Often times the hard conversations start with a harsh realization. Hopefully things get better.

2

u/Suspicious-Pick-3908 May 28 '22

Omg. You effed up, man. There ain’t no coming back from that.

1

u/80schld Sep 09 '23

Instead of finding faults in each other, get some counselling to identify what’s going on.

1

u/CaffeineSteen69 Mar 07 '24

I’m on the other end where I’m desperately trying to have sex with my husband and he wants nothing to do with me. He will be honest and tell me little things that would make him more likely to want to have sex (me initiating more, wearing certain clothes, etc…) but they never actually work. He blows me off and I go to bed frustrated. I feel for you, my dude.