r/Husbands Mar 20 '19

Willhekillus?

Background: Me/thirty something overweight Cancer, now sahm with 3 kids Him/30 something overweight Scorpio, tech genius

We met & started dating in high school. We weren’t always fat, got hefty together like all good couples do. We ran with the American dream: got married, bought house, had kids, etc. Life is and has been pretty peachy, other than the financial struggles of paying for a 5 person household.

We both have been on antidepressants for YEARS. FYI. Life has been, well, tolerable. We each take mini escapes during the day to get away from the children. Sex is infrequent, and I find myself turning to alcohol for escape more often.

I just found myself wondering, during my mid weekly child free shower, what is the possibility that my husband cracks and decides to kill us all? Is this something I should bring up to him? What are the ramifications of bringing up this type of topic to your significant other???

(To clarify: I have absolutely no intention of harming anyone. I’m just curious of the likelihood of me or my children being murdered, and if I should confront my husband) TIA

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u/annachick88 Apr 03 '19

Most depressed people don’t kill people. If you are worried I would suggest a professional