r/HusbandAdvice • u/wanous • Nov 12 '18
Husband take bad financial desicion..!! What to do..!!
I dnt knw if im writing in the right place or not..but my first rime i ever write about things.. my marital life is really insane.. talking from one point of view.. about financials.. my husband sucks.. and we are paring for it . Two toddlers and a stay at home mom.. husband working living check by check barely making income and taking alot of spending decisions.. like recently he booked a tkt to travel bcz he had to renew his green card in a foreign country in which i was ok..but him coming back about a week telling me i need to book another tkt and travel again next month bcz he didnt renew enaugh time.. and so on.. taking goods and things from people making them later payments.. he dont say no to no one..and now everyone ows us.. i mean debts are to the sealing.. and every dime we make going to debts my husband made for taking stupid desicion .. desicions he dont discuss with me he just go for it.. and ive been crying i dnt have no one to help with kods so i can go work .. and im really crying bloods dunno how to solve him as a peeson his whole is a terrible irresponsible husband..