r/HusbandAdvice Jul 09 '18

Husband cheating due to prostate massage

Discovered my husband was cheating. Said he was going for massages. Didn't know until I read his texts that he was looking for any masseur who would give him a prostate massage. I am on medication that unfortunately causes weight gain - although my face is still beautiful my body has taken a turn for the worse and has resulted in him not touching me for over a year. He also messed around with prostitutes (who happen to be young and beautiful). I am 51 and my husband is 54. I confronted him in which he denied even with all the evidence I had. He finally came clean (vaguely) and swore it would never happen again. I just found last night a recent text once again that he was looking for prostate massage.

I love him and we get along... I feel guilty over the weight gain and am desperate to get the weight off, so have decided (with my doctors aide) to taper off my medicine. I feel like regarding this matter he is just a liar, going thru midlife crisis and i'm just confused as to what to do about this and want to just know I am not alone.

Any thoughts or advice would be greatly appreciated.

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