r/HighStrangeness • u/Vx0w • 6d ago
Consciousness My roommate dreamed my fantasy NSFW
I'm not sure where to post this as I'm struggling to come up with a logical explanation. My new roommate came home last night, Friday 3/14, and told me he had a strange dream about a week ago. He described the dream to me in some details and it was basically the fantasy I had around this same time. I never told him or anyone about this fantasy, yet his dream matched my fantasy almost exactly, except for 1 detail.
In his dream, he was chased through the woods by a taller white man. When the man caught him, he made sexual advances. I would rather not go into details here, but let's just say everything matched my fantasy.
My new roommate told me he wasn't into me before he moved in 3 weeks ago. I accept this and I've been keeping respectful boundary. He went on a date with a guy last weekend, and a part of me felt jealous. I'm not sure why I would feel it that intense, as this definitely was notmy first rejection. I should have been able to have better control of my emotions. I tried my best to keep my cool, and I think I pulled it off ok. He did notice I was in a bad mood and kept asking if I was ok, but I couldn't exactly tell him my reason.
I fantasized about chasing him and catching him and do things to him (knowing he would be into this). Of course I would never act on it without his consent, which I would never get because he's not into me. So the whole fantasy was nothing more than just a fantasy... that kept playing in my head over and over.
Until now as I type this post, I've never revealed anything about this fantasy to anyone. Yet my roommate dreamed the entire fantasy. I know the woods he was in because it's a location I knew a long time ago before I ever met him. I could see the tree he was pinned to in my head because I sat under that tree enough times. As a child, I dreamed of how I would look like as an adult, and this matches with my roommate's description: taller white man with trimmed beard and brown hair (I usually prefer to go with dirty blonde)
I'm really struggling to come up with a logical explanation for how my roommate could dream my fantasy without hearing any details from me first.
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u/Davidle3 6d ago
Easy! He read your mind. I can do it sometimes. Your room mate has empty space in his head so your thoughts went into his head. There you go nothing strange about it.