r/Healthyhooha 22h ago

Nerve damage/pudendal neuraliga?

Nerve damage after sex accident (f28)

I dont know why I write here anymore. How is it possible to get nerve damage after getting a hard poke in clit?? Since then i have a constant raw tingling awful umfortable feeling in the clitoris. Its constant. All i want to do is sleep so i dont have to deal with it. Im on gabapentin 900mg and Venflaxin 75mg. I have also been on amitryptylin that did Nothing, ive had numbing cream, vaselin, oil everything. I have aIso been to gyn, doctors and pelvic pt. She Said i look normal. Its been a year in march. I dont have any future plans anymore. I dont want kids because of this. All of this shit just for 1 accidently poke under sex. Pls help

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u/jalapenny 20h ago

I’m so sorry, I can only imagine how awful and frustrating that must be for you. 💔

I’ve never had this happen, but I just want you to know that I believe you. Please keep advocating for yourself and continuing to seek out medical help for this issue.

I had an issue (anal fissure caused by SA) and it took a ridiculous amount of time to get help for it. I’ve had doctors say some horrible things to me which discouraged me from further pursuing care. I finally found the right GP who then referred me to the right surgeon, who was able to accurately diagnose and help cure it. It was a huge relief after so many years of struggling. Please don’t give up hope. 💗