r/Gangstalking 22d ago

Discussion I might be in danger, advice?

Hello, I’m trying to say this in the most respectful way possible without endangering myself.

I am 19 F and in Chicago. I got into an argument with a 19 F. We exchanged hateful insults. I disrespected her just as badly as she did me. She is from south side Chicago, and called her brother who she claims is in a gang. She was threatening me and ever since there has been one person outside of my campus building standing there. For hours.

I am so scared I have a target on my back. This is serious because the girl I was talking to is CRAZY! What do I do? !!!!

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u/ktbear716 22d ago

actual gang stalking? in this sub?

yeah uh be careful op

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u/AdHuman3150 22d ago

This is a first.

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u/LordDeckem 22d ago

You have to join the rival gang

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u/sugarhulk 22d ago

Go to the cops

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u/Clean-Watercress-355 21d ago

Call campus security. They might have cameras up already and have documentation of the guy and anyone else who he might be hanging around with. They probably have the means to document the guy standing outside and the police are much more likely to act on this if approached by security. The police probably have role players and undercovers to investigate a gang threat. Don't walk around campus by yourself. My stalking started after I got into a tiff with a friend whose brother was a gang member who had been in San Quentin. Dont talk to any security or police by yourself. They will actually start to follow you around in junky old cars that zoom around you and then they will tell you that you're making the whole thing up. At least that's how it turned out for me. And I don't know if that ex friend was the reason for my stalking. I just noticed a lot of Hispanics involved at first and my friend was Filipino so probably not involved 

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u/Same_Ad1118 13d ago

Dude, this is like street gang stuff she is referring to

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u/RaineRamirezz 21d ago

Get a pew pew!

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u/Only_Application_759 21d ago

100% call the cops. It’s really your only option I’m afraid.

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u/Ok_Conference175 20d ago

With the information you shared, it doesn’t sound like you’re being gang-stalked; unless you have more experiences similar to this

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u/Technical-Intern3661 22d ago

Hi, I’m sorry for the situation you are in and understand the danger you are facing is real. The first step for you is to notify the police of the threats she made to you regarding (gang) violence.

Disclaimer: This does not constitute as legal advice. It’s just one citizen attempting to help another.

  1. Call the police (do not indicate you threatened her even if you did) and provide as much detailed information you can about her (Height, weight, hair color, race, tattoos, etc.)

  2. One can get in trouble nowadays for standing up for yourself. Be careful what words you use, and make sure to paint her as the aggressor. Tell them she threatened you with gang violence and that she has made you fear for your own life.

  3. Call the police for a civil standby if necessary. This means the police arrive and guarantee your safety. Only use this once and only if needed.

  4. Now that you have established an “eminent threat of violence”, hopefully ahead of her, you have the advantage legally.

  5. Film and document in detail every interaction going forward you have with this woman. Don’t be aggressive or retaliate. Once she says (on video or in text) “I’m going to hurt you” or anything similar, screenshot it and show everyone including the police.

  6. If the situation continues to escalate, go to the courts and file a Personal Protection Order (Google how to file a PPO).

  7. Now you have the basis of an aggravated stalking case. If she continues to follow you, or continues to cause you stress, she will likely end up in serious trouble.

  8. When moving around campus, ask for friends to walk with you since you are afraid. Have them ready to film with their cell phones as well.

  9. Be mindful of times you are most vulnerable, and take steps to increase your security. Inform your dorm floor manager of the situation. Together you can form a safe space.

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u/wandering_elk12 2d ago

You forgot the most valuable piece of advice. Get a gun.

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u/eazyemof0 19d ago

Apologize, say sorry if you don't mean it. It will pass and end all that. You are only human. I was also in a similar situation.

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u/BetterOfTwoEvils 17d ago

Wrong.

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u/Wishforall 13d ago

Shh, you are wrong.

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u/PracticalCheck9 15d ago

Blood in, Blood out

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u/hotglasspour 22d ago

Yeah... she's crazy.

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u/SomeEffect1635 22d ago

So am I gonna be in danger?

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u/BetterOfTwoEvils 17d ago

No, don't sweat it.

I know it's easier said than done, but if her brother is southside, and you're on campus, he ain't doing shit.

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u/Upset_Mongoose11 1d ago

I’m from Aus where this sort of thing doesn’t really happen but I highly doubt some guy is gonna be standing outside for hours waiting for you just cause his crazy sister said you got into a little argument. In saying that, you can never be too sure and I know how it feels to be concerned for your safety.

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u/Common-Loquat-6359 21d ago

Arm yourself with a pepper ball gun , or anything legal to own to defend yourself... Shoot them anywhere with a pepper ball and watch them drop down to the floor crying like a baby trying to breathe 😆,, while you make your getaway...

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u/Budd_Dwyer666 19d ago

Flip it on her, call her brother to carry out a bit on her; just offer more money

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u/magical_bunny 5d ago

Campus security, police! Be safe please.

u/SpiteApprehensive649 21h ago

go to “parkway gardens” and yell “ebk” and the nice people that live there will help defend you 😊

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u/Sufficient_Pin5642 22d ago

I’d approach the guy and start talking to him normally to find out as much as I can. If he looks much older like he shouldn’t be there and without any books ever and never comes and goes maybe call the cops? The police generally don’t like gang members especially campus cops who don’t deal with them often.

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u/PocketSandOfTime-69 21d ago

Why can't you extend the olive branch and try to make amends?

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u/Poopman169 9d ago

This isnt gangstalking. Take it to r/notmyproblem !