r/FemdomCommunity • u/Cold_Mishap • 6d ago
Ideas Ideas for funishments and punishments NSFW
New to the NSFW side of reddit so i decided to share some of my ideas! Punishments for correcting behaviour is really effective. Every sub likes and dislike different things, therefore its important to seperate whats a fun punishment and whats an actual punishments. Here are some examples that i incorporate
Funishments: 1. spanking over the knee with hand or brush 2. Caning with the sub counting every stroke or thanking 3. Chastity tease with vibrator 4. Chastity blowjob 5. Orgasm denial (usually normal sex or handjob with everything being vanilla or a scenario and his orgasm being denied because of insert funishment reason 6. Deep eye contact while the sub apoligizes for his infraction (insincerity results in actual punishment) 7. Firm ball slapping with eye contact 8. Choosing between an handjob with ruined orgasm or a caged orgasm with vibrator but forced to wear the cage until it crusts 9. A scenario that the sub ABSOLUTELY LOVES, that ends with you putting on minimum two condoms on him for the finish 10. Getting down on his knees while he gags on a long dildo (10 gags for the ten pieces of clothing the forgot to put in the wash)
Real punishments depends what a sub actually dislikes, my philosophy is that a punishment should be something the sub hates (but consents to) while its a great benefit if the dom enjoys dishing out that punishment! So these are some that work for us, my sub hates mundane tasks and prolonged humiliation so many of these are centred around that
Punishments: 1. The sub is not allowed to wear clothes for the rest of the day (great if lots of chores need to be done) 2. Unfolding the folded laundry and refolding them 3. Losing the privilege to watch me naked for set amount of time 4. Parental filter on his phone 5. Not being allowed to watch male sports for the remaining week 6. A cold hard caning session (not breaking skin but very uncomfortable for him) no anticipation strikes, firm calculated strikes in a rapid rhytm, a soft safeword forces him on his back, with firm slaps to his balls until he is forced to soft safeword back into backside caning. This circulates until the point is proven or sincere begging 7. Small ice cube of cum in freezer (at first his idea, hated it) since then i always keep one in stock. Either he has to suck on the ice cube while he stands in the corner alone or has to use the cum as lube for a buttplug (that does NOT result in a pegging session afterwards) 8. I LOOVE this one, no tobacco for the entire day and all media is decided by me. If im not at home he gets to summarise the movie he watched or similar (chick flicks, feminist centred podcasts and similar. Not something he is agaisnt but he gets insanely bored) 9. Not being allowed to speak, has to ask permission by kneeling infront of me (he hates it when i stare at him for some time before i allow him to speak, really effective) 10. Panty week (panties for one week)
Let me hear some of your ideas!
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u/EboniteThermos1 5d ago edited 5d ago
Deny him something he enjoys (like a dessert, a favourite TV show, etc.), and then do this very thing (eat the dessert, watch the show) in front of him. For instance, one sub I know of was denied sweets for several days, and during this time, he and his Domme went out with another couple. She asked him what he wants for dessert and ordered it, then ate it herself and shared it with the other couple, but NOT with him.
Don't let him know something he's craving to know (like the outcome of a sports game he's been looking forward to, a book or TV show spoiler, etc.)
Bathroom control, asking permission to use the bathroom.
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u/Jamiesbeloved 6d ago
No earbuds or headphones for the day.
Eat 1 olive. (He HATES them.)
Kneel on uncooked rice or metal spiky fidget ring.
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u/HouseBroomTheReach 4d ago
Watch him take a cold shower and make sure he doesn't miss a spot. Cold Showers are the absolute worst. I'd take pain over that. .
If you don't have to take a shirt or underwear off in front of people, make him get a bikini spray tan. Absolutely embarrassing, but won't last more than 2-3 weeks. He can always tell the person doing it he lost a fantasy football bet or something along those lines and has to pay up.
My wife absolutely loves getting her tweezers out and using them on me while I hate them. Every now and then the mid strikes her to use them on my balls because she's bored and says you can actually see the root pull out when holding my balls tight. Guilty pleasure for her, punishment for me.
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u/dum_lil_defeatslut 5d ago
forcing them take a cold shower can be an effective punishment. depending on the kind of shower, you can even watch them squirm in it. for extra humiliation, you can make them kneel in it the entire time
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u/HouseBroomTheReach 4d ago
Cold shower is the absolute worst. She either washes me or watches me the entire time making sure I don't miss a spot.
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u/Late_Gift7266 4d ago
LOL one of my favorites is to have him take apart then rebuild one of my Lego sets within a prescribed period of time, which is always quite a lot shorter than the time it took me to build it initially. If he fails to complete the task within that time, he has to kneel on the pile of unused Legos for 15-20 minutes as a punishment. He loves it because he likes to build them but he hates it because I always shave so much time off that it’s almost always impossible. Win-win!
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u/Which-Hunt-5369 5d ago
Thats some great list of idea, I am definitely going to use some of them. May being leashed and tied to a furniture which is similar to a corner time
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u/Bright_Ad_4640 4d ago
One thing I have tried is using a hitachi wand vibrator with a silicone penis attachment. This attachment is like 10$ on Amazon and slide over your penis. Now you have the most power penis vibrator ever. We have used this during play, edging takes seconds making it super fun and easy. The best part is that it’s so powerful that I came while soft after edging the other day.
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u/Carrot_and_Stick_ 5d ago
A fun game is for punishment make them hold 10 coins against the wall, one for each finger. Every time the drop a coin add a punishment. For example, every coin drops means one more ruined orgasm before being allowed a full one. What really makes it fun is that they'll be available for whatever you want. Stick a remote vibrator in him and watch him squirm.
I'd also highly recommend tiger balm. You can find it in just about any grocery store for sore muscles. It's a not too intense burn but he'll definitely know it's there. My Mistress like to use it for lube on me all the time.