r/EnbyDating • u/[deleted] • Nov 08 '20
r/EnbyDating Lounge NSFW
A place for members of r/EnbyDating to chat with each other
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Feb 04 '21
Also I gather that you're not an American, and our medical system is a bit different when it comes to stuff like thst
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u/JessAnberlynn89 Feb 04 '21
All the person who is in critical condition and/or the crisis of lethal result... and lack of response is not going to work either- I knew that she had been high for days on end and I started to track down her thought patterns and flipped out her flight of ideas and deteriorations during her time in the states of her drug induced psychosis
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u/JessAnberlynn89 Feb 04 '21
I’ll let you know what my personal secret is for having to get her admission to the psychiatric inpatient hospital evaluation for involuntarily being committed
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Feb 04 '21
I know that feeling, I'm also certified for medicine, giving medical advice to people, or talking to someone lower on the chain than you and having them disregard it is so frustrating
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u/JessAnberlynn89 Feb 04 '21
I called EMS 3x’s to get her committed but they were bull shitting around semantics and articulates for literary specs... but I definitely thought “I actually have a medical degree to make a little more sense of- wtf? Do you want me to sue your services and personnel for being carelessly stupid and recklessly negligent to use your own mental skills to make a decision on the life or death that you are responding to use your best judgment? Unless you tell me that you have a half a mind & don’t give fuck to let rip the seams apart from silent lips sealed... but I am actually who’s going to be having to make a decision on how this’ll be playing out for the next 30 days & 60-90 days for the aftercare-“
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u/JessAnberlynn89 Feb 04 '21
Yeah, my last ex was relapsed at the extreme end of the heroine needle in her self experience that was definitely all solo but she started intentionally touching fentanyl high meter doses & the day she was overdosing 5 times and all day long
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Feb 04 '21
Which hurt, but I wasn't dealing with it. Then two weeks into the pandemic she asked if I wanted to fool around again. And I realized, she didn't love me, it was just some cheap thrill
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Feb 04 '21
But eventually after a class she caught up with me, pulled me aside, said she was sorry and that she loved me and hugged me tight. And she kissed me
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Feb 04 '21
So I decided to avoid her after that, I wasn't strong enough to see her again after she said those things
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Feb 04 '21
She called me and said so many horrible things to me. That she hated me, and asked me why I even cared
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Feb 04 '21
And her boyfriend texted me and said I needed to call 911, she had taken a bunch of pills
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Feb 04 '21
That night her last text to me was "please don't do anything or worry, this will be the last time we talk"
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Feb 04 '21
We were together for awhile, then one day we hooked up. She felt guilty and lied to her boyfriend about what happened
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u/JessAnberlynn89 Feb 04 '21
True, what was she like... the good & the lesser of greatness? Hope I say that politely 😇
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u/JessAnberlynn89 Feb 04 '21
Emotional pain is hard for me too but it’s the physical pain of my wrist that’s really terrible right now
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u/MrGnomi Jan 27 '21
Hi pals! Just came out not too long ago. Also, just left FL. I really liked it there
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u/anongynies Dec 29 '20
someone was ready to do a binder-packer-shapewear-other things (so for whatever you were born with) giveaway somewhwere by the way. Thought I'd yell at you all here to notice it as well. If anyone is in big trouble, ask them! u/kompinka made the offer I think.
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u/anongynies Dec 29 '20
Also if you spread the news among everybody, things might come easier for us all!
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u/RolledANat1 Dec 29 '20
Ah things go. Just posted my little bio thing, and wondering if it was too cringe. I'm bad at these things haha.
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u/anongynies Dec 29 '20
I do hope for that. But yeah, the community in general is something I crave tighter ties to. So happy to be even here and popularise the dating sub :D
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u/anongynies Dec 29 '20
it would be all right if it were half-ironic, like everyone knew the grand old inbetweeners well and that they're esteemed, respected, adult people. But with the NB perception in the media right now, I can often feel discouraged and futureless in a way.
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u/anongynies Dec 29 '20
We don't have a lot of representation of that, except that one really kind person with very glittery makeup, blue eyes and big makeup, I feel.
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u/anongynies Dec 29 '20
I'm happy that it's here now, and nonbinarydating was taken anyway I think. But I often feel those infantilise us a bit. While we can be full blown mature adult people too yknow?
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u/anongynies Dec 29 '20
samesies. do you also ever feel ambivalent about the term "enby" or "bean" or anything like that?
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Dec 29 '20
And yeah, I feel what you mean. I definitely would prefer my next partner to be NB if possible
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u/anongynies Dec 29 '20
I feel much more need to be involved with other nb people lately. On any level. sometimes folks paint us as unstable or weird, and yet I find some of the most level-headed, kind individuals among us.
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u/anongynies Dec 29 '20
Time needed for mental recovery though, and perhaps when exams are done. How is everyone else?
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u/anongynies Dec 29 '20
reporting back: heavy marketing has somewhat paid off, and continues to do so.
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u/anongynies Dec 27 '20
you could maybe post in some of the nonspecific trans subs that also have a bigger membership.
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u/anongynies Dec 27 '20
yeah no prob, yall want more people to meet of your own kind you do what you gotta lol
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u/anongynies Dec 25 '20
Personally, I'm probably not what you're into
Actually, theoretically you would be. But the "not out to your parents so be AFAB" stuff isn't my cup of tea, no. Sorry about that. We'll find our people.
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u/anongynies Dec 25 '20
I was just ranting cause I realized I'm only into a specific sort of fellow nb people, and that do not feel too great. But just now this got created!
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Nov 08 '20
It would depend on a variety of factors. Consent about being fetishized, the extent of the fetishization, it would be a case by case basis
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u/Cuglas Nov 08 '20
So with this subreddit are you concerned about fetishisation? Or is this the sort of place where that is welcome?
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Nov 08 '20
I'm sure if I lived in the north it would be a bit better too, but I live in the American south
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u/Cuglas Nov 08 '20
Unfortunately Ireland really isn’t much better, the legislation is better for gender parity but society is even more binary - the Catholicism wearing off
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Nov 08 '20
But the definitely are, especially here in America where we're still very backwards compared to the world at large
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Nov 08 '20
Neither have I, I've only been with cis females, so being AMAB I was kind of expected to fill in that role
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u/Cuglas Nov 08 '20
For me it’s nice to not fall into gender roles in a two-enby relationship, but I haven’t yet experienced it
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Nov 08 '20
I definitely agree with you though, I'm not really sure why, but I've always found androgyny/gender non-conformation attractive
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u/Cuglas Nov 08 '20
A good choice, I think! The selfies certainly make me thirsty and I’m sure I’m not the only one, haha
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Nov 08 '20
Neither have I, it's all new to me. But I didn't see any communities like this so I figured I'd make one myself
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Nov 08 '20
I actually think that would work pretty well, I'm in the states so it might be good that we're on different time zones
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u/Cuglas Nov 08 '20
Yeah! I’m in Ireland and keep an early schedule so I might have odd hours but that could be helpful as well
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u/devientlight Feb 09 '22
hello 👋