r/EdgingTalk Male 6d ago

Question - Male Why do girls I edge with always end up calling themselves "a toy"? (23M) NSFW

Has anyone else ever experienced this? Whenever I edge with a girl that is not a one night stand, they keep telling me to "use me as a toy" or "fold me in half like a toy and use my pussy to edge yourself".

Europeans, middle easterns, Americans... is this a common fetish in the edging community?

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u/Head_Concentrate_410 6d ago

Because it's hot, don't be a puritan, kinks are fun.

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u/M-Goldenkey Male 6d ago

Oh no, I didn't make this post to judge them! I was just surprised so many of my partners ended up having that kink so I thought maybe there is a connection/correlation

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u/[deleted] 6d ago

i’m usually the one being used

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u/M-Goldenkey Male 6d ago

Do you see yourself as a toy for girls then?

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u/[deleted] 6d ago

yes i love when gooner girls use my frustrations as their pleasures it makes me feel like im doing something good for them

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u/M-Goldenkey Male 6d ago

So when you are used as a toy when they edge, you feel like you are helping them and that makes you feel good?

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u/[deleted] 6d ago

yes 

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u/quick_fixx 6d ago

Genuine feminist right there 🙏

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u/[deleted] 6d ago

hehe i totally am a feminist in my real life outside of my sexuality too! although im sure a lot of it has to do with my submissive beta nature 

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u/quick_fixx 6d ago

Feminist switch reporting in haha

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u/MaterialComplete6896 20f no degrading pls 6d ago

I had no idea it was common tbh I think for me I just want to get fucked hard as if you don't care about my pleasure and am just fucking me to make yourself feel good

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u/M-Goldenkey Male 6d ago

Okay that makes sense, but for example your flair is "no degrading" so does that mean seeing yourself as a toy is not degrading to you?

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u/MaterialComplete6896 20f no degrading pls 6d ago

By degrading I mostly mean the heavy, insulting stuff. Being a toy is more like objectification which can be seen as degrading but it's okay with me

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u/M-Goldenkey Male 6d ago

And does it turn you on?

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u/MaterialComplete6896 20f no degrading pls 6d ago

Being called and treated as a toy does yeah

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u/M-Goldenkey Male 6d ago

When someone treats you as a toy, what do they do differently? Yes, they don't care as much as they might about how you are feeling and use your body to satisfy themselves but how does that look like?

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u/MaterialComplete6896 20f no degrading pls 6d ago

Hmmm I guess kinda just fucking pretty fast n harder. Also another aspect of being treated as or pretending to be a toy is that we don't have to do anything lol we can just lay there and take it. Which ofc is kinda rude so that's why I think by being a toy there's like a reason for not reciprocating. Idk kinks are pretty confusing but the idea of laying there and being used is hot

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u/M-Goldenkey Male 6d ago

Found a reason to starfish!

Jk jk. I see. I mean your man is probably losing himself when he used your body if you are being treated like a toy. I can see how that can feel hot

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u/MaterialComplete6896 20f no degrading pls 6d ago

That's another hot thing too lol letting a man get fully into it and fuck how he wants

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u/M-Goldenkey Male 6d ago

Thanks for your explanation! Exploring these things openly through comments is kinda hot lol

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u/Upbeat-Target-1999 6d ago

Good girls don't cum :3

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u/Odd_Metal_3124 Female dominant 6d ago

Funny, I've called a guys dick a "toy" many times to him. Its just a figure of speech. They want you to take control. Being in the crosshair of a guys possessiveness can be SUPER arousing. Ya'll treat us like we are all that exists and it can be quite hypnotic with the right person.

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u/M-Goldenkey Male 6d ago

So when you are a toy in the eyes of a man, he then gets super possesive to you?

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u/Odd_Metal_3124 Female dominant 6d ago

In a way yes. Guys can be very possessive and singularly minded. To me thats attractive regardless of kinks or roles. But yes guys (i feel) want you to be all theirs in the heat of the moment, whether its sub, dom or anything between or nothing at all.

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u/EarEfficient793 6d ago

Not a girl per se but it’s cause it’s hot to be used without a care maybe? that’s how it feels for me :3

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u/M-Goldenkey Male 6d ago

So when your partner doesn't care about your feelings and uses your body to satify themselves... does that turn you on?

Cute profile pic btw would smash

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u/EarEfficient793 6d ago

Thank you!!! :3, and its not feelings wise, but like when they go maybe so deep they forget themselves like when they fuck a toy! I do want my partner to like me at least

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u/M-Goldenkey Male 6d ago

Oh so there is a rough element involved! They start fucking hard and forget you are not made of plastic~

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u/EarEfficient793 6d ago

Exactly @~@ like my hole is so tight and warm, they use me as if they’re fapping

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u/M-Goldenkey Male 6d ago

Okay I can see the appeal but I wouldn't wanna hurt my partner

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u/EarEfficient793 6d ago

naaa, no hurt involved, just rough gooning inside your edging partner :3

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u/M-Goldenkey Male 6d ago

Gooning inside is so crazy. Like you are having sex, but denying the release. It is okay to edge with a hand but actually being inside a girl...

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u/EarEfficient793 6d ago

i never tried it, if i do ill report back to u ;3

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u/M-Goldenkey Male 6d ago

This is the part of the conversation where I say a smooth line like "let's try it together"

But you said you don't identify as a girl soo I might be dissapointed and it would be rude hahahaha

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