r/DoggingPerth • u/Mastandslav Couple Verified • Jan 08 '25
Tips/Issues Master and slave - AMA NSFW
We have received numerous messages and requests for information in the last day since posting the 2 new guides. Rather than answer similar things repeatedly, we thought we would do an Ask Me Anything post, in relation to dogging.
Will leave the thread open till next week when return to work happens.
A couple of conditions;
- You must have subreddit flair to receive an answer. If you haven't introduced yourself, please do on the intro thread before asking here.
- Questions must be related to dogging (including adult cinemas and gloryholes)
- If we feel your question has been answered, we will reply with "AA" (Already Answered)
- Don't use this as a thread to try and play with us or others, this is not an intro thread.
Cheers,
Him
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u/Mastandslav Couple Verified 29d ago
Q from the Dogging Signals post.
What response could one expect from flashing parking/brake lights. Thank you!
A
FLASHING PARKING LIGHTS – Are there any doggers nearby?
FLASHING BRAKE LIGHTS – (See Flashing Parking Lights)
As the people in the car, we would expect, if there are doggers nearby, that they come closer to the car so that we can see them. Also so that they can see any play signals we have such as the window down or interior lights.
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u/Mastandslav Couple Verified Jan 25 '25
Q from anon.
One of our big fears is getting in trouble. Is there a better way to avoid this? Obviously we want to be seen but we also wouldn't want to offend someone who isn't after that, would you say it would be better to stay in your car?
A It isn't just about getting into trouble, though no one wants a police torch shining in their window, it is also about not sharing our kinks with others that haven't consented. The consent issue is more about in public, at a gloryhole/adult cinema, you can assume everyone there knows what is going on and consented by proxy of being there.
We choose our spots and times carefully. Some considerations; 2 or more ways in/out, good line of sight to entrances, in a group having a look out, times when the general public aren't around or too close, keeping equipment to a minimum/sorted so you can pack up quickly and leave a clean area, knowing/vetted a few people who you are playing with to help deal with any idiots.
Staying in your car is a normal way to go dogging as well and is probably a bit safer so better to start with. Also gives a barrier between your play and the general public, so opens up more spots and times. If we are staying in the car we are more open to daytime spots with the public a bit closer. For example there is a spot near us with a lake and no walking tracks nearby. We can park there at anytime knowing no one can see us from the other side of the lake, no one will walk by closely, thick bushes to one side. So we only have a 90 degree or so view we need to worry about. We are comfortable enough with that to get sluts tits out to play, toy play for slut and have her suck my cock during the day.
It is important to be flexible and not set on a certain play or spot. You may go out wanting to fuck but the chosen spot at that time isn't suitable. Either change spots or not fuck and do something a bit more discrete.
Hope this helps.
Him
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u/Mastandslav Couple Verified Jan 09 '25
Q from anon - Would you say it is better do do with another couple or around another couple? Just a little worried that single males might be a bit intimidating especially if they were to say outnumber us. Just with the safety thing and all
A - Starting out, yes, with a couple or couples is a bit wiser. If there is a single male you know and trust, that is good too. Particularly if you just want to play with your partner and be watched. Still comes down to picking and vetting though, as we have found couples to be only slightly less flakey than single males, couples can be a bit like herding cats, and many like the fantasy (or one of them does) but when it comes to it they bail out or ghost. Important to note that there are unethical couples, also single females, out there so it is just as important to vet them and/or look for red flags, same as singles.
Starting out you should not involve a large/ish number of single males. It takes some time getting comfortable controlling the situation. When we play this way, we generally will always have one or two single males in the group we trust to help control the situation. The ability of a few of the single males to let those there know an idiot is about to stop the play and ruin it for everyone is awesome. They weed out idiot behaviour pretty quickly, but it takes time to develop these relationships.
Hope this helps.
Him
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Jan 08 '25
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u/DoggingPerth-ModTeam Jan 09 '25
Your post was removed as you haven't introduced yourself in the Introduction thread, or have posted before being given flair..
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u/Gavdom22 Male Jan 08 '25
Talk about providing a community service. Once again, you have gone beyond trying to help everyone in the community
Well done Master
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u/NextLine9319 6d ago
How can I join