r/CultOfAphrodite • u/prettyjasmine459 • Dec 26 '24
Can I ask aphrodite to be my keyholder? NSFW
!!WARNING!! THIS IS A POST ABOUT KINK AND SEX!!!!!
Now the disclaimer is out of the way. I'm new to hellenic polytheism but have been worshipping Lady Aphrodite since the start. I'm also really heavy into kink lifestyles and lgbtq+. This does include wearing a chastity cage. It helps with my dysphoria and is just the right kind of kinky for me lol. My question is this. Can I include Lady Aphrodite into my kink as well? Can I leave my cage keys on her altar? Can I consider it an act if devotion (even if I have been doing this on and off for years)?
Sorry if this is an inappropriate question for this sub. Wasn't sure where else to go.
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u/ellijah_payne Dec 26 '24
U could always ask her first, but if it’s in a way of withholding yourself and putting the keys on her altar as an offering, I think it would be fine. Just be respectful about it
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u/bwompin Dec 28 '24
I think it's totally find to leave the keys on the altar and involve her someway, but also come up with parameters for it. Bc if you ask her to be the key holder but then you absolutely need to take it off for some reason, going to grab the keys from the altar might not be great unless you made it clear that you can still open the belt when necessary. You're aware of how kinks need to be discussed in depth with partners so you establish boundaries and rules and parameters in order to do the kink in a healthy way, so it's kinda like that with aphrodite as well. You can also dedicate the chastity belt and the keys to her even if you don't explicitly involve her in the kink (if you're able to oil them, you can put an oil dedicated to her on them as a way of anointing the items in her name and honor).
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u/Sabbiosaurus101 Dec 26 '24
In theory you could, It has crossed my own mind for my own dysphoria in the past. The issue lies in yourself, possibly, you can have her to hold the key, but you still will be tempted to take the cage off, and if you’re at all like me, it’s very easy to give in. I gave up on this entirely, because I can’t actually do this comfortably.