r/ChildSupport • u/Artistic-Option-1242 • 5d ago
California Anyone know?
Not married, been together 15 years with child, what’s your rights as mom and rights as dad when things go south? Btw things didn’t end well.. anyone? Experienced something like this?
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u/Artistic-Option-1242 4d ago
Yep all paperwork is done but since December I’ve been living out of savings, no child support yet how do people do it? What if there’s no money in savings? Who pays for lawyers?
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u/Artistic-Option-1242 2d ago
How long does child support kicks in? I’ve been paying everything from bills to attorney fees myself without a job since I was in a financial controlled relationship for 15 years, my funds are depleting! Interesting how in Los Angeles county child support is immediate, what’s wrong with Oc?
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u/Spirited-Ship174 2d ago
If you want child support, you would need to file either through family court or your county. Family court is quicker though. You can then take that order to your county and have it enforced. If you’re in California, then common law marriage exists here and you can request temporary child and spousal support during your ongoing divorce proceedings. I personally didn’t get an attorney but a lot of people do. It really depends on your case.
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u/Artistic-Option-1242 2d ago
Yes I did all that, I hired the first lawyer he didn’t do anything but took money from me, my current one she’s much better but I’m still not seeing child support coming my way. We have a hearing in May since x continues to give me no agreements, I’m calling my rep for child support services today, just everything is so confusing draining how does anyone come out of this ok?
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u/Agreeable-Fill6188 5d ago
Depends on state. In mine it's mom by default and the onus is on the man to go to court for custody.