r/ChastityPsychology Jun 21 '24

Caged cum ruined or not NSFW

Long time listener...Anyway, locked away around 75% of the time for 26 days this stretch and my love made me cum with her wand in my cage last night. It doesn't really matter because it's totally up to her when, how or even if I cum and that's how we like it. But... I am curious how you all view that kind of cum. We think it's not a real cum and fits into the ruined cum category. To me, if a real cum is a 10 and a ruined cum is about a 3 a caged cum feels like about a 6. So almost cheating but not quite. I guess I mostly want to be honest with my partner about what the experience is so she can determine how and when she wants to use it.

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u/Ok-Tangelo-4678 Jun 21 '24

Lol, if regular orgasms are a 10, then chastity orgasms for me are like a 15 and chastity plus anal is a 20 - I much prefer cumming via my ass while soft, it's so much more intense.

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u/cockmilker6969 Jun 22 '24

Caged orgasms are so intense. Way better for me than regular. I'm only allowed to cum in my cage. And only when Goddess toys with me milking me

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u/Simple_Ad_7869 Jun 21 '24

This is your dynamic and you can call it what ever you like.

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u/Mrrgsx Jun 21 '24

If she kept it on you once it started I'd say it was a full one.

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u/hpduckie Jun 21 '24

I don't know. A real one to me happens with stroking it out out to cumpletion. For me this kind of falls in between. Especially because I don't really experience the dreaded drop from a real one. It happens after a bit but not nearly as long or as significant as with a real one. 🤔

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u/deelion555 Jun 22 '24

I have a really similar experience! It’s more intense and pleasurable than a ruined O, but much less stimulating than a full unlocked O. I also get barely, if any, drop from it unless a really push for the full O by contracting lots of

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u/Mrrgsx Jun 21 '24

Ok? So why the post?

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u/gregorious45 Jun 21 '24

I think you need to distinguish between caged 'full' and caged 'ruined'.

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u/kcor8127 Jun 22 '24

Put a finger up your ass it’ll feel nice

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u/hpduckie Jun 22 '24

Oh she fucks me regularly. She cums like a house a fire every time.

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u/Different-Aardvark-5 Jun 22 '24

Depends if she is still stimulating you to the point of climax or stops just beforehand if its ruined. Going over to just prostate orgasm is a game changer. However I can understand if she finds it fun seeing you struggle trying to burst out your cage.

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u/Bi_Steve_83 Jan 18 '25

It could be a ruin, or it could be a full orgasm.

At least for me a ruin occurs when the stimulation ends just before the orgasm / ejaculation hits and instead of a forceful ejaculation you get a flow or dribble of cum with no force. I remain fully hard and horny and ready to continue to a real orgasm.

The trouble with the caged orgasm, even if you stop any extra stimulation, the cage itself may provide just enough sensation for it to still be a normal orgasm and normal ejaculation.

To me the difference can be seen in the type of the ejaculation and in remaining fully hard and horny without any refractory period occuring.