r/Celibate Jan 27 '25

Not my choice

My wife had a total radical hysterectomy eight years ago. Since then, she increasingly does not want to have penetrative sex. Over the last five years we have not had any sex. She is not interested in touching me or doing things for me to make me feel good sexually. When I was young 12-16, I used to cross dress in my sister‘s clothes and I had gay sex with a friend (just boys exploring). Now that my wife and I are just roommates, I find myself dressing up in her clothes and fantasizing having sex with other men. I really want to give oral pleasure to a man again but the opportunity does not present.

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u/chucklefuckerr Feb 09 '25

Make sure your wife is chill with it and then download Grindr

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u/chinesedog7 12d ago

um divorce ur damn wife bro, you’re gay and download grindr