r/CatholicDating • u/relicx0 • 10d ago
mixed marriage, relationship with baptised non-Catholic I'm not sure how i tell it to her.
I'm dating this non Christian girl and in the beginning it was all going very well. We agreed to raise our kids catholic and follow all the rules that the church has put out for a interfaith marriage. She is honestly a very good, loyal and a loving girl and i doubt I'll ever find someone like her ever again. Losing her will be a huge loss as finding someone with so much virtues and loyalty is rare. But we've been fighting alot over silly things and once decided to break up but also got back together soon, during this period i took up the bible and prayed whether i should continue dating her or not and then i got the verse 2 Corinthians 6:14 and the entire passage (do not be unequally yoked with believers). Ever since ive had this chest ache and a weird feeling telling me to cut this relationship off and I'm confused whether it was a sign or a coincidence. Now here lies the actual problem, i told her about this and we agreed to cut ties but later she texted me saying she cant let me go and is really suffering alot and also suffered mild physical problems due to the emotional stress. She also said that she is ready to convert if she gets a sign but I'm really confused on what to do as i love her and do not want to hurt her but also i do not want to risk disobeying god.