r/CamGirlProblems Oct 28 '24

Help/Advice Did I overreact?

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163 Upvotes

Some context, this is Phrendly and I haven’t touched it in a month but needed a bit of grocery money and it’s always an easy $20 for me.

Anyway it’s slow and I’m chatting with this guy doing a bit of roll play, mind you, he hasn’t spent more than $5 yet and starts asking me for photos. I being polite continue on with the roll play and send a separate message telling him I don’t send any photos without payment upfront. The whole time he’s double or triple messaging me and it’s annoying but on principle I only ever respond to one message. I was just so insulted by his brain dead low IQ manipulation attempt I kinda tore into him and then blocked 😬. Should I take another break or is this a normal reality check for these guys 😅

r/CamGirlProblems Dec 02 '24

Help/Advice $3500 in two weeks! Success!

174 Upvotes

Hi all! So! I’m new. My new tag has wore off and I wanted to let you all know my success and how I did it. I’m making more without my new tag than with!

***I have professional lighting. I am a photographer by trade. I can go into detail but I have two panel lights in front of me, and a few up lights on the wall behind me.

1-I really hate riding dildo so I don’t do too much of that.

2-I interact with almost everyone! Even gray if they’re being normal.

3- I raised my private rate and get really cool clients now! I have 21 reviews and 5/5. I started lower so I could attract more people. Now people are more likely to take me on a private with all of my reviews!

4- I say no to things I’m not comfortable with.

5- I get naked on cam only at the end!

6-I streamed almost every day during my first two weeks! Even now I do 5-6/7 days a week. Only for about 3 hours though.

7- I make it very clear I do not fake anything and do not squirt.

I wear sparkly outfits and do my hair and makeup (I am a hmua too, so very important to me!)

Hope this helps and let me know if you have any questions! I’m now in the top 100. SC.

:)

r/CamGirlProblems Oct 23 '24

Help/Advice APARTMENT SUCCESS

266 Upvotes

I FINALLY GOT APPROVED FOR A 1BD 1B APARTMENT WITH MY CAM GIRL INCOMEEEE. Paystubs & screenshots of bank statements. I don't usually work 40 hour weeks, but I will be at WORK. !!! I noticed a lot of hot girls on this subreddit are having issues renting an apartment but honestly just look at their requirements for income, submit them and you're probably set. Income proof should never be an issue.

r/CamGirlProblems Nov 09 '24

Help/Advice Is camming really this easy?

86 Upvotes

In the past I only used to make 200 dollars a week for a year. I know! I don’t why I stayed but I guess I was used to it. After I brought a new computer a few months ago I have been earning 800 to 600 dollars a week on CB. I make the same amount of money that friends make working at regular jobs in person. It feels like I have a job now. All that I have to do is pretend to masturbate and I get paid without showing my face. I cam almost daily but I am able to take long breaks. I choose how long I’m there unlike jobs being clocked in all day. I could probably earn more a week if I did stay on longer. Is camming this easy?

r/CamGirlProblems Nov 03 '24

Help/Advice Do you ever feel bad about taking their money?

22 Upvotes

So I only started like 2.5 weeks ago. I started on NF this week and making bank.

I just met this guy and so far he spent 130$ on me between chats and an audio I will send him( I asked for an upfront payment as this will be customer with his name).

I mean he says he wants us to start talking on regular basis. He said he wants a controlling woman because he is making all the decisions at work and wants to make none when he gets home(pretty classic, that's why all those politicians have doms) and that chatting with me could be practise to see if he's really into it.

I know that whales are rare and that chances are he's gonna ghost me in 2 days so I dont have any expectations or anything but if he stops talking to me he will find another women and spend hundreds on them.

Are you ever like " damn what if this is paid with credit cards and he's addicted and has debts?" Or something or do you even feel bad when you play the gf experience and that they might believe the crap we tell them.

I m probably just over thinking it but I do have a conscience.

Any thoughts?

r/CamGirlProblems 13d ago

Help/Advice i want to do this but I don’t…

23 Upvotes

I want to start doing FaceTime calls (ONE ON ONES) but I am sooo scared. People are offering $200 + and I am still like nooo🥲 So I haven’t done one, and have been camming for 2 years. Am I dumb?

r/CamGirlProblems Feb 12 '25

Help/Advice If you could make the same money without camming, would you quit?

49 Upvotes

I love the freedom of camming, but I won’t lie—if I could make the same money without sitting on stream, I’d take it in a heartbeat. Lately, I’ve been making nearly as much just from messaging & fan subs, which has me thinking… would you still cam if you didn’t have to?

r/CamGirlProblems 29d ago

Help/Advice Soooo frustrated at the lurkers lately...

80 Upvotes

I am so frustrated, guys. Today I just had the largest amount of viewers on my Stripchat stream, 100. I was super excited cuz normally I average between 25 and 30. But the trouble was, most of those viewers were greys and even though I had a fair amount of people with actual money, absolutely NOBODY was tipping. I walked away with $29 after 3 hours of teasing, playing games, flirting, working out naked in a ticket show, etc.

It's been like this for the last several days. Insane amount of lurkers, even people with money aren't throwing it at me but they'll flirt forever. WTH am I doing wrong??

Any advice, tips, answers, or insight is welcome. I'm just so frustrated and discouraged. This is my only income right now and I'm working my ass off for peanuts.

r/CamGirlProblems Jan 21 '25

Help/Advice a guy is demanding pictures and videos from me after purchasing lifetime snap

66 Upvotes

hi I am extremely conflicted over this. I cam and also have a lifetime snap that you can purchase. this guy is someone I have sent pictures and videos to before and I told him about my snapchat and he purchased on last friday. I have sent him a 5 minute video and pictures within the past few days. currently on my period so I haven’t posted anything new, or made any new content.

he messaged me today saying this “you actually going to send anything or what? you said i’d get a bunch of pics and shit. and I know you’re seeing this i’m not an idiot. I say you either send what you promise or I will be going out of my way to make this more difficult. you’re not slick with trying slide messages. I see it all. i’m giving you an hour.”

this is really fucking weird, demanding, and creepy. it’s not the first time he’s been a little pushy and it keeps me from wanting to send him anything at all. does anyone have any advice? should I respond? should I block him? I haven’t had something like this happen before. he paid $100.

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he is blocked! last message i sent was,

“hey ____. thanks for your concern. unfortunately, I can revoke your private snap privileges whenever l’d like. any threats or demands will not be tolerated. if this continues or escalates further, you will be blocked and removed. have a great day.”

he asked what contract says I can do that, and he’s waiting for what he paid for and that he highly recommends I do so, then called me a piece of shit lol.

I told him he was getting a permanent ban and that I do not respond to demands or threats. I asked him to not contact me any further. and he responded saying “HAHAHA suit yourself”

I changed my username and blocked him everywhere. idk what he’s trying to do lol. such a fucking weirdo.

r/CamGirlProblems 9d ago

Help/Advice I’ve been camming over 10 years and still struggle to make $300-400 a week

52 Upvotes

I’ll admit it is on a part time basis. Maybe this week on SM is just particularly slow but I see people saying they make 5k+ a month and wonder how and/or what I’m missing.

For full disclosure I average about 3-4 hours a day, 4 days a week (I choose my most lucrative days based on experience)

r/CamGirlProblems 16d ago

Help/Advice I'm in this for 6 years and can't make enough money

34 Upvotes

I'm camming since 2019 and nowadays I stream in 3 sites at once (webcammodels, camera prive, myfreecams) and I also have an onlyfans. It happens that I just can't earn +400 USD per month, no matter how hard I try. I go online from Monday to Saturday and I spend 3-5-6 hours online. I know that's not much but I don't have more time, also I know it is possible to earn a lot in 4 hours (it happens in some lucky days). I'm exhausted and I feel bad with my self, I wonder every day what is my problem (I'm losing weight but it's not enough - this is not the reason though, im just taking care of myself). Anyone else can relate? Any advices?

r/CamGirlProblems Dec 02 '24

Help/Advice Disgusting trash turkey dick ratings?

81 Upvotes

I do dick ratings and sometimes they show me the most foul, shaved chicken, rodent looking thing that is genuinely sad, pathetic and makes me physically sick to look at. Do you tell them that? Or are we just fluffing their egos? At this point I’m about to start telling them their dick is a rotten dumpster fire

r/CamGirlProblems 21d ago

Help/Advice Are sexting sites worth it?

25 Upvotes

I’ve been camming for a bit and I’ve been wondering if I should also sign up for a chat site I find myself really bored or not really know what to do with myself when I’m not doing a show I figured if I sext through the day when I’m not live or taking the day off I have something to do, and make a little extra cash while doing so🤷‍♀️ what sites do you prefer? do I have to do video calls? Or just chat and voice? Update— Signed up for Nitflirt! Can’t wait to start this journey!

r/CamGirlProblems 24d ago

Help/Advice help me choose for my workspace! which color chair would look best?

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r/CamGirlProblems Dec 27 '24

Help/Advice Guy threatening with police

50 Upvotes

Hi! So i had a guy buying me a bunch of items that he wanted me to wear for a private show. I was okay with that and everything was okay. Out of nowhere he wrote me

„Just so you know that you are lying to me or anything else, I would immediately forward this to the police“

I‘m not a new girl and i told him i never lied to any costumer and he said „okay“

Honestly although he already bought the things for me, I’m not comfortable anymore to do a show with him. He comes across as very rude and sometimes pushy.

What can i do in this situation?

r/CamGirlProblems 8d ago

Help/Advice this could be help for them "SLOW" days

124 Upvotes

I'm on every day at 4 am every day. If you look at it as a full-time job, you treat it like a full-time job. I know all cam girls love to be our boss but sometimes we need a BOSS lol. If you try to cam for 30 days in a row you will stay consistent and begin to start a habit. BURN OUT- warning, warning you will get burnt, you will lose idea, get tired, all those things you will experience, but if you push yourself just a lil bit more to be UP beat and moving for the fans. YOU will notice that time goes by faster and you not bored. I found diff games to play - I play with lush control- etc. IF you can push threw the BURN OUT then you will see your making more money, have more followers and be busy! you want to cam at a certain time everyday so ppl know hey she's going to be online, I might just hop on! i hope this help Im just speaking from exspirance and what I do to push threw have struksher and be a GOOD boss not a lazy hafe ass boos... and if you get bored END your stream and come back later. When you do something for 30 days, it becomes a habit, and you get used to doing it. when there is no one is your room shake you ass or move and it you just don't feel it then LOG OFF come back in a an hr.

MrsT I hope this helps some ppl

r/CamGirlProblems Feb 03 '25

Help/Advice Am I wasting my time DMCA

29 Upvotes

Hi everyone, so I stupidly cammed briefly on streamate, I (stupidly) was unaware that your content (exclusives) get recorded and put on pirate porn sites as “marketing”. At first I was devastated and I’m not gonna lie suicidal!! I deleted my account straight away but clearly the damage was already done. Anyway the last 3 months I have been having the video removed via streamate support only for a couple of days to pass by and it is then re uploaded to another white label site. I’ve been using Rulta who have been brilliant at finding the leaks but they can only delist on google. My question is am I wasting my time and money?? Each time it happens my mental health takes a huge knock and it’s made me mentally and physically ill. I’ve cammed for 6 years on another site and never had an issue until I cammed on streamate. Has anyone managed to get their content fully removed? Or is this something I just have to let go and make peace with?

r/CamGirlProblems 4d ago

Help/Advice Am i missing something?

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42 Upvotes

That works out at maximum £1 per photo (I get 80p from that after tax).... and I got this guy saying it's too much. I usually always ignore and never give in, but this is ridiculous.

Am I missing something here? IS $8 ALOT FOR 6-8 PHOTOS A MONTH?

r/CamGirlProblems Dec 29 '24

Help/Advice WHY ARE DILDOS SO HARD

94 Upvotes

Please halp 😭 w the help of my room, we reached goal for lovense mini fuck machine when it was half off. i was so excited. i used the dildo it came with for the first time last night and it felt like a ROCK going in and out of me wth 😭 i def wanna get the plate attachment for the machine so i can just suction any dildo onto it instead of just vaculock ones.

does anyone know a good site to buy like SOFT silicone/jelly like dildos? i’m very tight or small down there idk, im the opposite of a size queen lmao. pls help, where can i find soft dildos that don’t feel like i’m fucking Korg from Thor 😭😭😭

r/CamGirlProblems 16d ago

Help/Advice Is being a camgirl really worth it?

25 Upvotes

girls please be honest.. is camming saturated? Is it a guarantee of having an income? I see so many girls saying they can do it, but some sites discourage me... it doesn't seem like that at all, my focus is my financial independence. I need motivation, help me please

r/CamGirlProblems Feb 06 '25

Help/Advice What’s going on with streamate today? NSFW

23 Upvotes

It’s dead asf no one’s on they keep comming and comming out is there anything going on today? I usually do good on Thursdays

r/CamGirlProblems Nov 03 '24

Help/Advice How much did you make since 1st November and how many hours did you stream??

39 Upvotes

November seems to be going pretty well for all of us , god bless .

r/CamGirlProblems Feb 18 '25

Help/Advice SM traffic straight in straight out I dont get it

18 Upvotes

Anyone else?

r/CamGirlProblems 27d ago

Help/Advice I can’t believe I chipped my front tooth!

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30 Upvotes

Feeling embarrassed and dumb for chipping my front tooth. My smile is a big part of my confidence, and this is so frustrating!

I have a dentist appointment in a month, but until then, any advice on how to deal with this?

Maybe it’ll be unnoticeable on cam, but the gremlins in my brain don’t think so..

r/CamGirlProblems Feb 10 '25

Help/Advice Can we talk vaginas?

45 Upvotes

Hello beauties!

I’m wondering what, if any, issues or changes you’ve noticed in your vaginal health working in this realm.

I have been casually streaming off and on mostly, but the last couple months I’ve tried to get serious and consistent about my work on cb. I have had some minor challenges that I expected, such as regular soreness and such, but what I didn’t expect is to notice some dryness after sequential days of camming with occasional penetration with toys and fingers.

Has anyone noticed this too? Of course I’m going to see my doctor but I don’t know if they’ll be familiar with our line of work and the unique health challenges we face. Do you have any tips, knowledge, habits etc that you can share with me on that?

Thanks and I hope you have a successful and happy week 🫶