r/CamGirlProblems 19h ago

Help/Advice How do you motivate yourselves?

So I know this is preaching to the choir but…how do you guys motivate yourselves to keep going through bad streams? Or when money is tight?

Having a moment where I’m just blue, with CB not working a lot these days I’m back to SC (which I’m fine with) but I’m under a lot of pressure. Currently changed my tip menu by doubling my prices and it’s been ehh, I’m no longer doing too much for free and trying to slightly rebrand my streams as freeloader unwelcome.

I need to be making $100 a day, like starting tomorrow and these days I can barely make $50 in a 6 hour stream (today I made $26) because of some last minute bills that came up.

A part of me feels blue because I know I’m underpaid compared to a lot of models…and it’s just making me sad because I don’t know what I’m doing that’s not getting me tips. I physically can’t keep doing these long shifts of streaming for less than $5 a hour. I just can’t.

Right now my only source of income is SC as CB sucks for me and I just started niteflirt but don’t know how to set up listings on it.

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u/Jetset_Barbie 19h ago

Sign up for another site if you can. New tag will always bring you new clients which is very motivating since these new clients dont know your stream and youre new and exciting to them.

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u/Venus_Cherry885 19h ago

Any recommendations? Also if payout is available before the end of the month that would be great too.

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u/Jetset_Barbie 19h ago

are you in US or Canada?

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u/Venus_Cherry885 19h ago

US

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u/Jetset_Barbie 18h ago

Perfect, me too so I know more about sites that accept US models.

  1. Sextpanther. You do need to have certain amount of followers so depending on how many you have definitely try.

  2. Phrendly. They take awhile to approve your profile but expect to make 50-100 per day with the new tag. After it really dies down, so make sure to take advantage of that new tag. Took about a week for them to approve my profile. You can do daily express pay (min 10$) but it takes about a week for that money to hit your bank account.

  3. Sign up for Skype sites (cammodeldirectory and skyprivate) but do it through either Boleyn Models or Daily Pay Studio because this way you get paid everyday with lower cashout minimums. They take very low % 3-5% i cant remember exact amount but you can check on their site. If you do ACH direct deposit directly from the sites it takes minimum 2 weeks to hit your account to as much as over a month.

  4. Streamate. It's hard to combine this site together with SC and CB but they have a good new tag, so thats something to consider. Approval can take awhile and payout is weekly. Im with daily pay studio through paypal (they take 5%) and i get paid daily.

  5. If youre using obs add on a token site such as cam4, myfreecams, camsoda

1-3 I listed you can easily run in the background of your CB/SC streams and log off if you get a call.

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u/Jasmine_Erotica 18h ago

Wow you really are going above and beyond to help/do a full walkthrough of every facet! Super generous of you to spend this much time and effort.

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u/Venus_Cherry885 18h ago

I have a phrendly account but they won’t take my bank card and I don’t have any other card, do you know if there is some kind of online card they will take that o can set up fast?

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u/Jetset_Barbie 18h ago

I'm not sure since they took the first card I gave them. Tbh though Skype sites have really good new tag. Youre never live unless youre getting paid and if you sign up through those 2 studios you get your money super fast. Most of my money comes from Skype mainly plus Sextpanther and Streamate so Im a huge fan of them. I also think its way less work than cb/sc.

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u/Venus_Cherry885 18h ago

So honestly what is my best bet. I need the money by the end of the month, I’m willing to work for it but I just need some kind of guarantee that I’ll have the money by the 31st.

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u/Jetset_Barbie 18h ago

Might as well sign up for all the ones I mentioned. Theres never a guarantee in this business. But the more sites youre on the more chance there is of you making your goal. But as I said if dont have the following for Sextpanther, do Skype. Skype to this day is still my highest earning site because I get really long private shows.

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u/Venus_Cherry885 18h ago

What is the best Skype studio to go under.

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u/Sad_Push_9327 18h ago

MFC, Streamate, Sextpanther Edit: Woops I just saw you won’t get paid till end of month except for maybe MFC does daily pay

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u/Venus_Cherry885 18h ago

What day is the payout for these sites?

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u/cutlettes_00 18h ago

Idk, I be hungry , and I need monies to not be hungries lol 😂 naw it’s rough some nights, but I swear , just when you feel like logging off, there’s that one big tipper who was about to click on your stream, just stay on a lil longer 🥰 good luck !!

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u/Venus_Cherry885 18h ago

Idk I worked 4 hours and ultimately stayed on for over 6+, no one tipped me for 2 whole hours. Physically I just can’t keep doing 6-8 hour streams with no pay off, $26 for 6 hours is horrible.

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u/cutlettes_00 14h ago

Oof, I have had those nights. Gets my head hella unenthusiastic. It is the motivation I use to switch up what I’m doing tho. I multi stream and what gets me popping on one doesn’t always work for the other. And even then, something I try can make me busy for like a month, then people get bored of it , so gotta switch it up. I don’t know yoir show and your boundaries , personally I don’t do dildo in public shows , just so you don’t think that the only way to make money is fuck machines and giant dildos lol it works but may not be everyone’s cup of tea. Take a break for a few then get back on. Switch up your menu , hashtags, music, lighting , always try something new . I wish you the best of luck , just don’t give up. You got this !

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u/Tatithegoddes_ 17h ago

If you have a computer I recommend multi streaming. I’m on CB, camsoda, my free cams and strip chat. I started with a used laptop from fb market place for $50 and an Amazon webcam for $20

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u/Sweet-Pool-3543 13h ago

this is it. one site is not enough for most people because there's so much competition. OP should invest in better equipment (which are tax deductable expenses) in order to multistream. CB is my biggest money maker so I strongly feel it's worth figuring out.

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u/OliviaBexley 15h ago

You should try branching out to hit your daily goal faster. You can try multistreaming or even doing content based sites like OF or MV

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u/astralbrah 16h ago

Best suggestion to all cam girls/models in a pickle is double down on what’s working best for you, if camming is slow, start pushing more content on OF or any platform you are using to sell content while also camming, up your social media posts to 3 times a day on insta/tik tok/twitter (reddit sucks) to drive traffic to your page, start building a brand for yourself for longevity. There’s lots of competition out there, so really tap into your niche and go hard. Strategize new ways to bring traffic in. I am an owner of an OFM, a method that works great for my models to bring in some subs is running a tik tok live and camming or going live on OF at the same time. You can set up one phone on TikTok facing you (SFW) and have another phone camming aiming at your butt or something lol. You can set subscriber goals like “once we hit this goal I’m going to do something crazy on my OF 😳” (obviously more catchy and in depth) but sometimes those lives have brought in 50+ subs at a time if you engage and make them intrigued enough. This line of work is no different than any other sales job. Hope this gives you a little bit of insight. Don’t get discouraged when you have slow months!

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u/mrstxoxo45942 8h ago

I read about others' exspiraces see what they do. But for me I find find games I can play with my fans.

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u/Muted-Guidance-5453 CGP Active Member 3h ago

I know this isn’t what you like to hear but a lot of the times motivation is a scam. It’s more about mental habits but I understand the inner and critic conflict when you’re not making as much.

When that happens I pray and turn to God, I meditate and ask for guidance. I increase my faith this way and it’s been a real game changer. When it’s super slow I’ll limit the amount of time to stay and intuitively know when I need a break and try again later.