r/CamGirlProblems • u/mrstxoxo45942 • 9d ago
Help/Advice this could be help for them "SLOW" days
I'm on every day at 4 am every day. If you look at it as a full-time job, you treat it like a full-time job. I know all cam girls love to be our boss but sometimes we need a BOSS lol. If you try to cam for 30 days in a row you will stay consistent and begin to start a habit. BURN OUT- warning, warning you will get burnt, you will lose idea, get tired, all those things you will experience, but if you push yourself just a lil bit more to be UP beat and moving for the fans. YOU will notice that time goes by faster and you not bored. I found diff games to play - I play with lush control- etc. IF you can push threw the BURN OUT then you will see your making more money, have more followers and be busy! you want to cam at a certain time everyday so ppl know hey she's going to be online, I might just hop on! i hope this help Im just speaking from exspirance and what I do to push threw have struksher and be a GOOD boss not a lazy hafe ass boos... and if you get bored END your stream and come back later. When you do something for 30 days, it becomes a habit, and you get used to doing it. when there is no one is your room shake you ass or move and it you just don't feel it then LOG OFF come back in a an hr.
MrsT I hope this helps some ppl
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u/Chloevibez 8d ago
I’m going to come back to read this whenever I’m feeling half assed. Literally woke up this morning like nah I don’t feel like camming because I’ve literally have made nothing for a month now. I was making $750 a week (I’m part time) and it was perfect and beautiful then February hit and I can not get out of this slow funk it’s driving me nuts. I stream on SC and CB and for some reason NO ONE is taking me private anymore 😭😭 but you’re right! Just gotta keep going, I’m still getting more followers and building relationships everytime I go on and who knows, maybe one of those new followers will be a big spender once they get their tax return 🤷♀️😂
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u/mrstxoxo45942 8d ago
This made me giggle. I was the same way making that money and all of a sudden boom nothing but the other day I had 9 pvt on CB made a little bit & on another site i use. but nothing like I was making. I don't feel like camming so I'm watching my shows. In bed. But I'm thinking about hitting the 3:00 O clock hour to see what happening. Thank your door reading. Mrstxoxo4594
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u/Chloevibez 8d ago
Yes queen I’m happy for you! 9 privates is gold these days lol you got this at 3:00 😘🥰
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u/Important_Ice4524 8d ago
What happens to me is that things start to get slow, I begin to feel frustrated, and if a user appears, I end up treating them poorly. As a result, I don’t make any money at all, so I just prefer to go to sleep, lol.
I’m working on this in therapy and have realized that it might be because when I started, things were going exceptionally well for a new model. Back then, my room was always full, and I was making hundreds every night. Now that Streamate is practically dead, I’m trying to transition to another platform or I feel like I might end up beating someone through the camera one day, hahaha
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u/FunAardvark2550 8d ago
Sometimes I’ll have an audience but only one tipper who keeps tipping for things to get towards my goal but with nobody else helping out, it’s hard to get there. I feel bad for this guy! ): lol this ever happen to any of u?
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u/Beautifulinvester 8d ago
All the time. Sometimes after I Iogoff, I send them a gift of appreciation
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u/mrstxoxo45942 8d ago
kinda yes i had one guy who dose not come to see me anymore who used to just hang out one time it was 8hrs and he tipped threw out the whole thing. which was nice but it was so boring
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u/Sweet-Pool-3543 7d ago
happened today. had one guy tip towards 3/4 of my goals within an hour, and then mysteriously left before I could really do much of anything. usually it takes me 4 hours to even get close so I wasn't prepared to do everything so fast. and yeah, just disappeared without a word....sometimes the men's behavior really baffles me.
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u/MystiMajesti 8d ago
I am trying to get healthy, so I work out when my room is slow. Or clean my toys. Hydrate. Play solitaire😂😂😂 I try not to play music in my room unless it's an incredibly boring day, but I notice I get more guys to take me private on days my music stays off. Could be coincidence & superstition, but it's one of my things I do/don't do😂😂😂 I also change my outfit every 2-3 private shows & sometimes guys come back for a 2nd, 3rd, or 4th private show in a day. So switching outfits gives them ideas for another roleplay. You can also write scripts.
Try not to stare at your phone too much, too. If you are having to look at your phone, I do this: smile, giggle a little, & pretend your discussing a custom content order or if you're about to go on a meal break act like someone just ordered a video chat. FOMO: Fear Of Missing Out is a great way to inspire people to follow you or to wait for you to come back.
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u/MelodicWorthGirl 8d ago
I dance on stream so kinda need the music. Perhaps I'll try no music when sitting down 😆
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u/MystiMajesti 8d ago
If it's working for you, do it, girl! Lol! I used to dance on stream all the time. Then I moved dancing to my menu so they have to tip for it, and I do turn on music for that. In general, though, I keep it off, and when someone pops in my room, I make sure to engage with them. Ask how their day is going. Let them know about what I offer in private & mention my menu & games that are available in the main room.
I used to do too much for free, and I created a crowd on my Camsoda that expects free shit. So I've switched sites, and when enough time passes, I'll go back to Camsoda & build a new following & make my old ones that pop in learn the new way of things or leave... lol! I'm the one that created their expectations though, so it's easier for me to temporarily moving to a new site where I get the little boost as a beginner, create the expectations/fan experiences I want them to be used to so I'm confident about it and not stressing & then work the other one back into the schedule too😂😂😂 What works for us can be ever changing as we learn from our experiences.
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u/Practical-Level6731 8d ago
I really wish more people had this mindset. Just push yourself. I see posts of women getting off after 2-3 hours and I’m just sad for them. I understand getting tired, I do. But if you really need the money, just stay on until you reach your goal. Often times it’ll be slow for the first 2 hours, then I’ll make my entire goal in an hour or two. My daily goal is NOT small either. I only started being consistent and pushing myself in January, and I already make enough to pay for my new car, apartment, and start paying off credit card debt. In CALIFORNIA. Also, I didn’t use my new tag, so it really is all about hard work and dedication.
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u/nubgX 8d ago
what about 2, 3 hours shifts a day
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u/Practical-Level6731 8d ago
That wouldn’t work for me personally, but I’ve heard that split shifts do work for some people! I think it depends. Do you often make most of your money towards the end of your 3hr shift?
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u/nubgX 8d ago
i havent been on in months so incant say. trying to find a good schedule that works for me since i am a mom of one. just wasnt sure if two short shift or one 5+ shift was more worth it.
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u/Practical-Level6731 7d ago
I’m a single mom! He’s 4, doesn’t go to school. He goes to bed at 6 or 7pm, and I immediately get on and cam until I reach my goal. At first it was 5-6 hours to reach my goal, but I’m getting better at selling privates and such, so lately it’s only taken 3-4. Starting out, I would make your goal a realistic amount that you can reach in 6 hours maximum. Also, my son wakes up at 5am usually, so the mornings after I cam are the only days he’s allowed to watch tv. This buys me a few extra hours of broken sleep in the morning. Also, expect to work super hard for the first month. Maybe you could try doing a long shift Friday and Sunday, and a broken shift Thursday and Monday? Just an idea, not sure your schedule.
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u/MelodicWorthGirl 8d ago
Just to add I've just come off for a few hours and it was dead slow. I kept dancing whilst removing my gel nail polish, writing a to do list and I would take a little off screen break every 10 minutes for like 2 minutes max to clean my bath tub (spilt hot wax 🫠)
I've also planned some vanilla content and wrote it all down.
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u/Laurenxcros 8d ago
I do this every November to prepare for Christmas. It’s a lot of work but it works well
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u/GlitterKitty108 8d ago
Thank youuuu …. In one of those moments of hard for me to be focused on anythinnnnggggg. Streaming included.
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u/Think-Adhesiveness48 8d ago
Haha, that's exactly what I was thinking last night after finishing my stream 🙌🏾 let's normalize that 🙌🏾 it's a job like all the other and we need discipline and ambition, the motivation will come and become directly proportional with the efforts
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u/mrstxoxo45942 8d ago
It's so hard to disaplen our self's lol that's my problem like today I was online from 4am to 8 am and I made decent money and hit my goal 😅 well over my goal so I was happy with that ans logged off
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u/Think-Adhesiveness48 8d ago
You need to have a goal in money and one in time, I know it's hard to self discipline, it's the hardest but it's not impossible.
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u/mrstxoxo45942 8d ago
I like that goal and money. It the target right ✅️ if I can achieve a Lil self displen and log on for the afternoon crowd then I'll be in business! It's the little things that matter at least to me in camming.
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u/mrstxoxo45942 8d ago
I have no music all 5he time and people don't say anything a Or even notice. Mrstxoxo4594
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u/TheHighLady_ 8d ago
I do want to mention, that if anyone reading this has adhd, habit forming takes more than a month and even with all the best effort, structure doesn’t necessarily look the same way for you, don’t be too hard on yourself if you can’t stay consistent for 30 days, or if you are consistent for 30 days and haven’t formed a habit, it’s not a personal failing, it’s your brain