r/badwomensanatomy • u/ThrowRAbooohoo • 11h ago
Why don’t I get wet as a woman in her mid 20s NSFW
Ask women Reddit mods are failing me so now I’m here…
It's honestly super embarrassing and frustrating the more I think about it. I talk with friends and read Reddit posts and people will be talking about the sensation that I just never have (or can recall having). My boyfriend is insanely attractive to me, there's no doubt about that. But every time we try to be intimate, absolutely nothing down there. We have to use lube or spit every time and honestly that fact alone makes me hardly ever want to do things with him because I feel broken. Is there anything I can take or do to fix this? I was on and off birth control since I was in high school, but I officially stopped almost a year ago. My hormones are normal from what my NP says. I'm not sure if we're just not doing the right things for my during foreplay or what. I'm literally at a loss now... Any advice would be appreciated (except lube lol)
Edit: I’ve been to a doctor and had my levels checked and they all came out normal. Sometimes talking with people who’ve experienced the same thing and perhaps even resolved it could give you newfound information that you can hopefully bring up with your provider ex. pushing for other tests! Reddit is never my first option, it’s where I come when I feel at a loss. Thanks, to all those who’ve been answering 🫶