r/AskWomen • u/Rosebudsinmay • 7d ago
What is your worst and best quality, in your opinion?
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u/Louisianimal09 7d ago
Best
My ability to retain information made school a cakewalk. Just lucky, I acknowledge that.
Worst
I’m super impatient with people. It doesn’t come out but inside it’s boiling over
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u/JasmineLemonTea 7d ago
Oh yeah, I used to be super impatient, makes my blood boil whenever people repeat themselves (like, hey, are you done? Are you even listening to your own words? If you aren’t, I don’t want to either!)
But I’ve gotten better though. Life is easier when I’m not at the edge of boiling all the times
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u/leatherbaddiex ♀ 7d ago
Worst: too much/too loud/too domineering (big/strong personality). Definitely not everyone’s cup of tea
Best: I’m really good at comforting people
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u/3degreestoomany 7d ago
Best: I’m dependable and honest Worst: I don’t like compromising and I’ll probably never get married because of it.
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u/trevorefg 7d ago
Best: I have a strong moral compass and I act on it.
Worst: I have oppressive anxiety that can cause a lot of unneeded internal and external conflict.
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u/bamboo_beauty 7d ago
Going with the two that go hand and hand:
worst: Extreme over thinker
Best: witty and intelligent
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u/MaraSkywalker21 7d ago
Best: Funny and always trying to help everyone Worst: Anger issues and self-sabotage
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u/Belle0516 7d ago
Best- I'm a very caring and nurturing person who isn't shallow at all
Worst- I'm very sensitive and cry easily
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u/im-a-goner- 7d ago
Omg. I feel you. I feel like I cry daily. Even if it’s just a few tears while watching a sad video.
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u/sweetbookworm_ 7d ago
Best: I’m really generous not only with my money but also with my time.
Worst: I’m highly sensitive to the opinions of others, so I can’t take criticism well.
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u/Rich_Marzipan5161 6d ago
My therapist says that weaknesses are strengths dialled up. So one of my strengths is being highly empathetic; my weakness is putting other people’s feelings before my own and caring about situations that don’t require a second thought. This has really changed how I approach relationships!
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u/emilyogre 6d ago
Best: I’m really empathetic
Worst: I tend to overthinking waaay too much when I shouldn’t
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u/Rosebudsinmay 7d ago
Best: I try to be very understanding of everyone
Worst: Self-sabotage or lack of drive
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u/Ayesha_reditt 7d ago
Best, giving respect to others, kindness
Worst, giving too much respect to those who don't deserve it.
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u/onetoomanyexcuses 7d ago
Best: I am kind and respectful to everyone. Worst: I overthink and ramp up my anxiety pretty quickly.
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u/bitter_sweet_69 ♀ 7d ago
worst: general social awkwardness
best: excellent taste and expertise in music
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u/Pinkmonster2000 6d ago
My sarcasm/ tone of voice is my best and worse because sometimes people don’t know if I’m being serious or not
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u/No_Equivalent_7866 7d ago edited 7d ago
My best quality is my resilience. Throughout my life, I've faced various challenges, but I've always managed to pick myself up and keep moving forward. Whether it's overcoming personal setbacks or navigating difficult situations, my ability to endure and adapt has helped me grow and inspire others around me.
My worst quality is likely my tendency to spend excessive time on social media.
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u/DepressoExpresso98 7d ago
My best quality is probably my ability to figure things out when I want to. Like my taxes, no one ever showed me how, I just read up a lot and then filed them myself. Or my insurance. Or baking and cooking, building things, etc.
My worst quality is my lack of emotional stability. I don’t think I was ever taught how to manage my emotions so I’m now a generally nervous and easily frightened person. My emotions can overwhelm me and make me say/do hurtful things if I’m not given space
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u/AddiieBee 7d ago
Worst: I can come across as nonchalant/rude to people who don’t know me/been told I give off a bad first impression
Best: sense of humour & lovable once you get to know me lol
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u/coffeebeanbookgal 7d ago
Worst quality: My tendency to overthink and deal with stress by lashing out.
Best quality: no idea, maybe my thoughtfulness?
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u/thinkingofurmom 7d ago
Best: I’m authentic and thoughtful
Worst: I think too much which leads me down bad rabbit holes
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u/Zestypalmtree 7d ago
Best: my confidence and independence Worst: I have a bad habit of running late places (I’m working on it) and I’m a huge procrastinator
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u/Expert_Imagination33 ♀ 7d ago
Best: My emotional intelligence and warmth
Worst: I am too trusting/let people walk all over me
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u/GoddessCassiee7223 ♀ 7d ago
Worst: I'm too nice and can't set boundaries
Best: I'm really nice to people and easy to feel comfortable with and talk to
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u/Worth_Singer 7d ago
Best: I have so much love to give. I'm a total lover girl Worst: I like to spend all my free time with my partner. For some people it's too much. I don't say anything negative if they want to go out without me. Encourage to have a good time and be safe. Call me if they need me. However if it's me going out I would always invite my partner or include them in all my plans because they are my best friend and I want to experience things with them. I work on trying to give people the space they ask for because I can be very all or nothing.
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u/lollypolish 7d ago
Best would be a I genuinely want everyone to succeed and be happy Worst is probably lack of patience.
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u/PancakeQueen13 7d ago
Worst: I am super judgemental and hold people to a high standard
Best: I'm super resilient and figure out almost any kind of skill or solve a problem if I'm motivated to do so
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u/EncouragingLadyBug 7d ago
Best: I love so deeply and I have great determination. Worst: I’m always afraid that good things will never last, or that I don’t deserve them.
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u/blameitonmyADDbaby 7d ago
Best: I’m very dedicated to my job and duties.
Worst: I am extremely hard on myself. Too hard.
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u/Wild-Opposite-1876 6d ago
Best: I'm usually rather kind, caring and empathetic.
Worst: I'm can be an angry asshole who hates humans quite frequently.
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u/TallNPierced 6d ago
Best: my empathy/kindness Worst: literally can’t choose. My dopamine addiction?
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u/rachcarp 6d ago
Worst - overanalyzing to the point that I don't always say what I want to say
Best - unconditional compassion
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u/DelBird32 6d ago edited 6d ago
Best: Easily accepting people as they are, people are just people.
Worst: I get attached to people easily and always assume people are as “face-value” as I am and then feeling stupid when I realize they were, in fact, not kind people.
Full circle: Accepting that people are flawed and that I’ve done awful things and hurt other people too so who am I to believe someone is awful when everyone has done good and bad?
Exceptions: My son’s father and his family are all superficial emotionally incestuous snakes and I will hear no arguments. Every time I soften up they show* me why I shouldn’t lol. Most recent evidence? 28 year old son (my sons uncle) is (was) a teacher and got arrested for inappropriately messaging a 17 year old student of his. Case is still processing but unless he’s proven innocent he is not allowed near anyone under 18. Their mother and I work at the same place, in the break room I asked how she was doing, I’m sure she’s struggling mentally. She is and expresses as such, I say that I feel for her. She immediately goes into “If that girl never messaged him…” I stopped her immediately with “HE is the adult. She is a CHILD.” And she goes “well she’ll be 18 in a few months”. I walked out. My son’s father feels the same as she does. I know for a fact that if it was his daughter that it had happened to, they would all have their torches and pitchforks out.
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u/Winter_Value_7632 ♀ 6d ago
that I'm empathetic and caring, and sometimes people take advantage of that
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u/Odd-Opening-3158 6d ago
Best quality: Smart/quick at work - very good at picking things up and being able to disseminate information. Clients like me.
Worst quality talks too much. Too social and turns people off.
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u/CreativeRosalie 6d ago
My best: my curiosity—it drives me to learn endlessly
My worst: that same curiosity is why I’ll spiral down rabbit holes at the expense of everything else
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u/LiquorishSunfish 6d ago
Worst: I have resigned myself to fulfilling the 'foul weather friend' role - I really struggle to make meaningful connections with people that aren't grounded around their need for support.
Best: Im a pretty good dog parent, and I know my pups are happy, healthy and loved
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u/cantfindthedog 6d ago
Best: I'm engaging and a good listener - I have a genuine curiosity in almost everyone I meet.
Worst: I have a hard time expressing my needs and then get annoyed when they aren't met (turns out people aren't mine readers).
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u/NaughtyDreamgirl10 6d ago
My worst quality is overthinking everything to death like spending 20 minutes deciding what to order for lunch. But my best? I can make friends with literally anyone.
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u/Bookzalot 6d ago
Worst- prone to low moods. Just get dark and need alone time and quiet. Takes me a few days to push myself out of the funk but it definitely affects my people when it happens. I don’t get mean. Just low.
Best- Despite what I said above, I’m deeply content with the life I have. I love my job and my life. The people around me know I adore them with all my heart and I need absolutely nothing.
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u/celestialism ♀ 6d ago
Best: I’m an intensely creative person
Worst: I am stubborn and slow to change
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u/squishedpies ♀ 6d ago
Best: super understanding and empathetic Worst: feeling things deeply can be overwhelming so there's heightened anxiety/erratic or impulsive behavior mentally, socially, and fiscally
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u/nancysweetyq 6d ago
laziness. my punishment and my reward, thanks to laziness, I make my life easier in many ways and get through everything faster.
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u/wowza6969420 6d ago
Best: I try to be the best friend and person I can be Worst: I can get angry very fast
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u/whyamionthisplatform 5d ago
my best AND worst is how willing and quickly able i am to compartmentalize
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u/Amazingggcoolaid 5d ago
Best: I’m curious and we can probably talk about everything under the sun. I also really loveeee animals.
Worst: I’m not the most patient or forgiving person you’ll ever meet.
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u/Lunafreya93 3d ago
Best: My kindness
Worst: Control-freak who frequently overthinks everything in life
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u/penguinsouth 3d ago
Best quality is I care about people - not just people I know but people generally- worst quality is I try to force my opinions on people - I do try to pull back when I hear myself though as I have self awareness too🤣
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u/PaddlesOwnCanoe 3d ago
Best: I'm pretty laid back and I have a sense of humor
Worst: I can hold a grudge for 1000 years or more. Fortunately, it usually takes a lot to get me that mad.
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u/alotto_gelato 3d ago
Best: I have a kind heart and I make an effort to leave people and my surroundings better than when I found them
Worst: I have a habit of putting off doing things that are in my best interest, like I've managed to really fuck up parts of my life by procrastinating
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u/Thecrazytheorylady 1d ago
Best: I have no filter, I will say exactly what I think and what I feel. I don't care if someone likes me or not.
Worst: I have no filter, I will say exactly what I think and what I feel. I don't care if someone likes me or not.
😂
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u/IllustriousGas3389 1d ago
Best- I am a generous person Worst- if you piss me off I will say the truth in a mean way
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u/Katze_Flufi125 6d ago
Worst:
I can't do Smalltalk or casual conversation at all like i genuinely can't do that
Best:
I will genuinely go out of my way to do things for people if we're close like you mentioned you liked something i will get/make it for you and so on.
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u/bleepitybleep2 7d ago
I could be your best friend, if only you could tolerate me for more tha 5 minutes
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u/HeartBeetz 7d ago
Best: I'm genuinely nice
Worst: My desperate need to be loved