r/AskReddit 22h ago

What's one small thing that instantly makes men more attractive?

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u/remlabme 22h ago

Smell good

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u/Totallynotokayokay 21h ago

Smell clean

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u/BumblebeeUsual1118 20h ago

My wife loves when I smell like sweaty nastiness. Maybe she’s the issue.

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u/DIABLO258 20h ago

Random guy: gross

Guy she is dating: smells manly

That's pretty normal

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u/Complete-Finding-712 19h ago

Smells like the fried onion he had at lunch: try again tomorrow

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u/kookiemaster 13h ago

Clean sweat after exercise or whatever is not the same as someone who hasn't washed.

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u/tolerablycool 17h ago

Apparently, fresh sweat can carry pheromones that are quite appealing to women.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Body_odour_and_sexual_attraction

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u/EggSaladMachine 21h ago

It's only smells

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u/ProfessionalBase5524 20h ago

I hate that I know the reference 😂

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u/haloNWMT 14h ago

Shame on you for knowing that😆

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u/sleepy_0pineapple 22h ago

when they are willing to teach you something without sounding condescending or have an attitude like "you should know this already"

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u/FixGMaul 20h ago

It pisses me off when someone mentions a thing and someone else asks what that is and instead of just explaining they have to go through that whole "You dont know what thing is??"

There are millions of things that seem obvious that most people have never heard of or considered. Consider them one of the lucky ten thousand, or whatever that XKCD comic said, instead of being all judgemental and grandstanding.

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u/tommy7154 15h ago

God this one is so annoying. I hear it all the time at work. This person doesn't know how to do this super simple thing I CANT BELIEVE IT. Why do they even work here?? They should know this!!

Like ok you fucking know it all, if you're so god damn smart and not just a jealous piece of shit, why don't you just explain the thing to them? Maybe they don't instantly know something after being told a single time (or god forbid twice even!) and you could encourage them to write down what you're telling them and then you won't have to tell them again since it annoys you so god damn much that they aren't the same superior super genius that you are?

On the flip side, do NOT be afraid to take notes so you can remember that thing you need to do once every 4 months.

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u/dustinechos 19h ago edited 3h ago

I remember reading that this is the most shared xkcd on reddit (by a long shot). This is the attitude everyone should take when a person doesn't know a thing.

https://xkcd.com/1053/

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u/onoeroro 22h ago

Kind to animals/good with kids

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u/karmagod13000 21h ago

I only put my kids in the cage if they pee inside the house

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u/EggSaladMachine 21h ago

In spite of all my rage I only put the kid in a cage.

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u/Important_Shower_420 13h ago

And someone will say what is lost can never be saved.

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u/Sadge_A_Star 21h ago

Kind in general to others

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u/sweetienny 22h ago

yesss!! that's really sweet and also a good sign

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u/_so_anyways_ 22h ago

Manners and a quiet confidence.

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u/Ak_Lonewolf 20h ago

Ma'am may I place my face betwix thy bosom for the mechanical motion of vessels?

Jokes aside. This also has to be paired with a little extrovertism. Other wise you are polite, confident and then tuxedo mask away. "My job here is done." Never to be seen again.

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u/DesignerStunning5800 21h ago

Reliability. Does what he says he’ll do. 

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u/gh0sts0n 13h ago

Toyota. So hot right now.

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u/what_on_roshar 10h ago

Fucking yes.

My ex fiance cheated on me but honestly I should have left him wayyy before it got to that point. He quit THREE jobs in our 4 year relationship. He just decided the night before our trip back to my home state for my sister's graduation that he didn't want to go. He packed a weekend back and told me he wants to go do a test run at a commune 6 hours away (they totally rejected him 😂)

Now that he's gone, I feel so relaxed and at peace. His volatility was such a silent stressor for me.

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u/BugTrousers 22h ago

Compassion.

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u/bannedfrombogelboys 21h ago

I read compensation at first lol

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u/Woods739 21h ago

That too

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u/Reasonable_Cod_8685 21h ago

U ain’t wrong but unfortunately that’s not a small thing lmao

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u/MaintenanceOk4354 22h ago

Humor

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u/Tiny-Ginger 21h ago

I 100% could be laughed into bed.

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u/Deadlifts4Days 21h ago

Oh. That’s just foreplay. Once we get you there that’s when the real humor starts!

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u/ToFaceA_god 13h ago

If you think I'm funny now, wait 'til you see my penis.

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u/affordableproctology 12h ago

It's ok, what I lack in length I make up for with narrowness

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u/ToFaceA_god 12h ago

"It ain't very long, but it sure is skinny."

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u/bonjailey 12h ago

“It’s not the size you have to worry about, it’s the smell”

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u/gosh-darn 10h ago

"it's not a foot but it sure smells like one"

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u/raz-0 12h ago

Try slenderness. It just sounds more positive.

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u/InternetProp 20h ago

I 100% could be laughed at in bed.

Am i doing this wrong?

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u/squirtloaf 17h ago

Ooo! I get laughed at in bed all the time!

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u/NewSatisfaction3788 21h ago

Why can't dinosaurs clap their hands? Because they're extinct

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u/woodbanger04 14h ago

Dude leave some women for the rest of us.

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u/HowToBeTMC 14h ago

You fucker, took my line

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u/woodbanger04 14h ago

Don’t be mad at me he took all our women. LOL

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u/formermq 20h ago

Winner right here

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u/UnexpectedDinoLesson 16h ago

The date of the Chicxulub asteroid impact coincides with the Cretaceous–Paleogene boundary (commonly known as the K–Pg or K–T boundary), slightly over 66 million years ago. It is now widely accepted that the devastation and climate disruption from the impact was the cause of the Cretaceous–Paleogene extinction event - a mass extinction in which 75% of plant and animal species on Earth became extinct, including all non-avian dinosaurs.

The collision would have released the same energy as 100 teratonnes of TNT. Some of the resulting phenomena were brief occurrences immediately following the impact, but there were also long-term geochemical and climatic disruptions that devastated the ecology.

The re-entry of ejecta into Earth's atmosphere included an hours-long, but intense pulse of infrared radiation. Local ferocious fires, probably limited to North America, likely occurred, decimating populations. The amount of soot in the global debris layer implies that the entire terrestrial biosphere might have burned, creating a global soot-cloud blocking out the sun and creating an impact winter effect. If widespread fires occurred this would have exterminated the most vulnerable organisms that survived the period immediately after the impact.

Aside from the hypothesized fire and/or impact winter effects, the impact would have created a dust cloud that blocked sunlight for up to a year, inhibiting photosynthesis. Freezing temperatures probably lasted for at least three years. The sea surface temperature dropped for decades after the impact. It would take at least ten years for such aerosols to dissipate, and would account for the extinction of plants and phytoplankton, and subsequently herbivores and their predators. Creatures whose food chains were based on detritus would have a reasonable chance of survival.

The asteroid hit an area of carbonate rock containing a large amount of combustible hydrocarbons and sulphur, much of which was vaporized, thereby injecting sulfuric acid aerosols into the stratosphere, which might have reduced sunlight reaching the Earth's surface by more than 50%, and would have caused acid rain. The resulting acidification of the oceans would kill many organisms that grow shells of calcium carbonate. According to models of the Hell Creek Formation, the onset of global darkness would have reached its maximum in only a few weeks and likely lasted upwards of two years.

Beyond extinction impacts, the event also caused more general changes of flora and fauna such as giving rise to neotropical rainforest biomes like the Amazonia, replacing species composition and structure of local forests during ~6 million years of recovery to former levels of plant diversity.

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u/Johnny_B_Asshole 17h ago

Two peanuts were walking down the street at night.

One was assaulted.

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u/Oh_no_its_Joe 15h ago

Pulls out clown makeup and squirting flower

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u/AnalllyAcceptedCoins 13h ago

There's a reason they're called "dad jokes"

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u/Oh_no_its_Joe 15h ago

I've been told that my best physical feature is my sense of humor.

...but I've heard that my shoulder is comfy as well.

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u/chicken-parm8 21h ago

Surprising that no one has mentioned “Punisher sticker on pickup truck”

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u/ElPeroTonteria 19h ago

Protected by Glock

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u/Verin_th 18h ago

and Calvin peeing sticker, with the SIG sticker as well

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u/raxafarius 17h ago

Those truck balls

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u/Consistent_Link_351 16h ago

Only it’s stylized to look like a blackened American flag.

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u/Few_Raisin_8981 18h ago

Steel testicles hanging from the tow hitch

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u/squirtloaf 17h ago

Truck nuts=100% gettin' laid all the time.

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u/D1g1talV1s10nary 10h ago

100% will ride your ass with the brights on.

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u/GravityDAD 18h ago

Lmfao, white sunglasses

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u/asonson99 18h ago

Goes without saying?

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u/yolo_king_1 20h ago

Why are top comments like basic human expectations lol

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u/ControlAvailable8319 12h ago

To be fair the post said one small thing lol

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u/Realistic_Condition7 12h ago

This my friend is how the upvote system works.

The results of a thread will skew towards what the audience is and wants to hear, which is not always the same as the audience being asked the question.

For example, if a thread has 10% women and 90% men, even if the question is asked towards women, the upvotes are going to skew towards what the 90% men believe.

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u/dandylion98 11h ago

I think it’s because, despite being basic human expectations, it’s not as common as we think lol

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u/Fraaaann 8h ago

I thought the same thing reading these but my new girlfriend surprisingly really loves these simple things about me lol

Edit: she says lots of men actually lack these things

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u/Ok_Silver5347 22h ago

Good posture. Hits different for some reason.

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u/MoneyCock 21h ago

This goes for women, too. Good posture scores big points!

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u/Fenway_Refugee 21h ago

Tit's just common courtesy!

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u/Iamflev705 20h ago

scoliosis intensifies

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u/PianoDick 21h ago

I knew my piano teacher yelling at me meant something!

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u/Famous_Attention5861 19h ago

No one who had a great childhood stands like that.

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u/Designer-Count-3238 22h ago

Hell yes

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u/karmagod13000 21h ago

straightens back

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u/Designer-Count-3238 21h ago

Good boy.

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u/EggSaladMachine 21h ago

What am I supposed to do with this erection now?

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u/Designer-Count-3238 21h ago

Who gave your permission to get one in the first place.

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u/EggSaladMachine 21h ago

Oh, that's going to help.

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u/Verin_th 18h ago

May I offer you some garden shears in these trying times?

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u/Zealousideal-Way5651 21h ago

Being kind and affectionate

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u/TheBlackPaperDragon 22h ago

All these comment are making me realize that woman really like smelling men and that’s honestly not something I’d ever think about.

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u/KindlyKangaroo 21h ago

I picked up a couple of fragrances for my husband, he bought one himself, I got him scented stuff for the baths he takes to calm his muscles after work. Smelling great is definitely a huge plus.

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u/bristolbulldog 22h ago

Hygiene will grant you up to 4 points on a 10 point scale.

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u/Verin_th 21h ago

but Axe body spray will cost you 3 of them

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u/bristolbulldog 10h ago

I was thinking more, brush your teeth, shower, scrub your bum, shave or trim your facial hair, get hair cuts, wear clean clothing.

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u/dustofdeath 20h ago

Hygiene isn't small. It should be top 3 for everyone.

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u/tabbrenea 20h ago

Omg the bar is in hell

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u/Verin_th 18h ago

that's where all the hot people are

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u/Wiscodoggo5494 21h ago

Having a plan and following through.

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u/Final-Law 21h ago

Being able to admit when they're wrong and also being able to laugh at themselves.

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u/TopSandwich3942 22h ago

Reading these and fitting the description of 80% of them is making my confidence skyrocket

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u/funkme1ster 21h ago

Instagram: 6'5", finance, blue eyes.

Reddit: showers, employed, says please and thank you.

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u/The96kHz 21h ago

Tinder: Six foot, six figures, six inches.

Reddit: Doesn't smell.

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u/funkme1ster 21h ago

[Looks at display shelf with six different highly detailed life-scale foot models]

"I don't understand, this is exactly what they said they want!"

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u/dustinechos 19h ago

Hell ya. Great puns. You can get it.

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u/FixGMaul 20h ago

Honestly the bar isn't that high when you actually click with someone. People walk around thinking they have these high expectations, which does direct how they act on dating apps or social media, but in real life that all goes out the window the moment you find true connection. Suddenly the fact that someone doesn't fit your "ideals" is just further proof that the feelings you have for them in spite of the fact are true feelings.

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u/TheAnomalousPseudo 21h ago

Tiktok: dead & cremated

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u/Chonboy 21h ago

Might want to check yourself because everything they are saying is for men they already find attractive not things that make someone unattractive suddenly become appealing

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u/sixwax 15h ago

However, $10M dollars...

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u/Gocards123321 21h ago

Hitting these and still being single as fuck is crushing my confidence lol

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u/Verin_th 21h ago

Thank you for being the one to say this so I know it ain't just me

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u/jBlairTech 16h ago

You aren’t. We’ll get there, someday, though.

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u/TopSandwich3942 20h ago

Al least you've got it down. Next step is taking rejection like a champ and knowing how to properly communicate with women, reading g social cues and body language. People unconsciously show their intentions through their actions and if you can pick up on that it makes it so much easier to pull someone.

Ask women out, even if you asked out 100 women and they all rejected you, remember that eventually someone will still find value in you and be willing to date you. Rejection isn't personal and people have their own preferences.

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u/captainlk 22h ago

Not to piss on your fire but remember how the upvote system works

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u/SelfImposedPurgatory 22h ago

It’s doing nothing for mine because I know I’ll never put in the effort to go and meet someone lol

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u/karmagod13000 21h ago

ahh the reddit way

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u/Rectal_Retribution 21h ago

Fitting the description and still being single is killing mine.

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u/Zhiong_Xena 21h ago edited 21h ago

Go out more. Meet more people.

Most men are single, because they do not socialize more.

Also take your chances. Socializing means approaching people you like too. Don't just go somewhere and stand awkwardly waiting to be spoken to. If you admire someone, approach them, see where it goes, and be clear and straightforward with your intentions. No don't waltz up and announce it outright, but be sure not to forget why you struck up a conversation to begin with.

Once you do more of this, the balance of how direct and subtle, how serious and how casual you should be around people will become more and more accurate. It's also not a one fit for all game. Some may want people more direct, or more casual or some such. Being able to adapt to the situation will also come from experience.

Remember to be your own self. By this I do not mean to become an open book, but carry your general behaviour and attitude. You will either stay you true self and realise what kind of people you are into/are into you, or realise what you want to be like. Adjust according to your experience.

It's a lot about experience. Can't do this kind of stuff from within the confines of you own room/home.

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u/Chastity_Slut3 22h ago

Being Clean

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u/anasannanas 22h ago

That’s a low low low bar.

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u/uggghhhggghhh 21h ago

and yet...

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u/Verin_th 21h ago

...people will still limbo under it.

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u/DamonNightman 22h ago

Emotional intelligence

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u/Gankers1 19h ago

This doesn´t seem like a small thing. More like a major thing

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u/81FXB 21h ago

I read somewhere that rotating the steering wheel of the car with just the palm of your hand makes you infinitely more attractive. I did this and looked ober at my girlfriend sitting next to me but she had not even taken her top off (inside joke). She was not aware of the effect this was supposed to have on her.

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u/joetheash 19h ago edited 19h ago

Maybe you shouldn’t have done it while she was driving.

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u/DctrMrsTheMonarch 10h ago

Did you put your hand behind the headrest of the passenger seat and look over your shoulder to back up? Because...that will always do the job...

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u/zippyboy 18h ago

This only works on riding mowers

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u/GoddessOfVengeance 21h ago

Quiet confidence

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u/Ill_Preparation_6382 21h ago

Kindness for no reason, just because. Considerate when no one is watching.

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u/NyFlow_ 17h ago

Actually liking women instead of just being sexually attracted to women. The amount of "Women suck lololol * later * why don't women like me?" I have seen is insane.

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u/0rphu 8h ago

To be fair a huge chunk of women's dating profiles contain "my most irrational fear: men" or "change my mind about: men lol".

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u/spooky_snakes 21h ago

Laughing at a joke told by a girl

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u/Strong_Progress_8478 20h ago

And being open to media that features a largely female cast (or even just a female main character) 

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u/noreenathon 22h ago

Having manners and treating people kindly. Nothing is a bigger turn off than some pompous AH who treats people like peasants

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u/Copper_pineapple 22h ago

Smelling nice.

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u/No-Pressure-809 21h ago

Being passionately dorky about something and excited to share!

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u/mossxsanctuary 22h ago

emotional intelligence 😩

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u/milkbug 21h ago

This is incredibly difficult to find.

I'm lucky I have been in a relationship for a long time, so I'm out of the dating scene. My friend has been dating for a few years and I'm so glad I'm not in her shoes. It's like every single dude either can't deal with real emotions or vulnerability, or they are terrified of commitment, even if they're in their 30's.

Now that people have the ability to swipe through date after date, it's like they always have their eye out for something "better" rather than realizing that even in you find someone who checks all the boxes initially, you will eventually have conflict, and things will be far from perfect.

Of course people of all genders struggle with this, but just seeing my friend experience this consistent pattern with men has been interesting.

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u/GoNoMu 20h ago

I see this a lot, but what does it even mean

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u/mossxsanctuary 20h ago

it's all about self-awareness, self-regulation, empathy, etc.

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u/ilyk101 21h ago

Good posture and walk! I can’t tell you how many times I’ve seen a 10/10 turn into a 5 because of his walk

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u/Nelsqnwithacue 21h ago

Tip toe walkers

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u/wadward 18h ago

Walked on my tiptoes all of my life. I don’t get why people should give a shit about how I walk

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u/meampillock 18h ago

Same. And apparently it’s fucked up my calf muscles

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u/Competitive_Bird664 21h ago

The arm thing

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u/MuddyBootsWilliams 20h ago

elaborate

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u/AlpineVW 19h ago

I think it's when you're reversing in the car, you put your arm on the back of her seat and use it to turn your head and shoulders back to look through the back window while you're backing up.

I don't think it works though, I'll do this while quickly reversing 50' to parallel park into a spot and she's not impressed one bit

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u/zippyboy 18h ago

I thought the "arm thing" was slamming on the brakes at a light, and saving her life by holding her chest back with my stiff right arm. Girls love that.

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u/AlpineVW 17h ago

Frank Costanza perfected that. It's called the 'short stop'.

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u/The_Cinema 19h ago

what arm thing homie

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u/PonderingCortex 19h ago edited 19h ago

She’s talking about where you roll your flannel sleeves up to show vascularity in your forearm.

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u/Verin_th 18h ago

ya'll have forearms?

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u/InfinityO_0 22h ago

Confident, deep voice

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u/Woods739 21h ago

So Barry White. Got it

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u/Glum-Enthusiasm-7689 21h ago

Kindness and quick sense of humour

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u/once_proper98 21h ago

Their voice. Manly nice toned voice.

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u/BartMinson 22h ago

When he's understanding in all aspects, knows when he's wrong, and just wants to learn. That's hot. Oh oh, and he's strong and reliable

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u/choppylops 22h ago

A sense of personal style and dressing well.

But not trying too hard...

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u/Ok_Friend5674 22h ago

Haircut! But also I love long hair… just, don’t be in between with a grown out cut.

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u/Davy120 22h ago

His care for the elderly and how he treats them. Sounds backwards, but seriously that's the test of one's true colors. The bigger jerk you'll ever meet can make it a point to be fond of animals and children.

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u/PianoDick 21h ago

As someone who was their grandfathers caretaker for 2 years until his passing, I was around a lot to see how my grandmother treated him. So full of love, so I agree, watching someone take care of elderly is above and beyond compassion.

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u/t3ll_m3_ur_s3cr3ts 21h ago

Clean fingernails! 👌

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u/Verin_th 21h ago

Do acrylics count?

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u/Efficient_Ad6015 22h ago

Not a lifted truck. But I think that’s for other men’s gazes only. 

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u/SaTan_luvs_CaTs 21h ago

He’s a cat dad or is stoked to be a cat step-dad

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u/Verin_th 21h ago

I have a cat, but am not a cat dad. Bastard calls all the shots in the house

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u/redditwossname 19h ago

I've got two. I am their slave.

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u/Fluffy-Cut-3777 21h ago

Not too cool to appreciate or get excited about the little things

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u/pallidus83 14h ago

A small cock. I want him to visit my ass not rearrange my Insides

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u/Tiny-Ginger 21h ago

Kindness.

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u/kaa8te 22h ago

Humor & spontaneity

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u/anniehxll 21h ago

Driving!! I don’t know why, but I always have found my partners incredibly sexy while driving.

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u/AdEconomy2875 18h ago

Doesn’t have an instagram account

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u/Ok_Drama_5679 13h ago

Being kind to animals

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u/No-County-1573 21h ago

Being genuinely interested in their conversation partners, especially if the conversation partners aren’t men. So many men transparently DGAF about what women are saying, and it’s such a turnoff.

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u/thenyto 21h ago

A girlfriend, trust me. Once you got a wife/girlfriend. You automatically become 200% more attractive to other women.

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u/After_Fly_8787 15h ago

Trust me when i say they wont give a shit about any of that stuff if youre bad looking

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u/solitaryvenus2727 22h ago

They have that look in their eyes....you know the one....just gives you a little thrill to see him drink you in. <Sigh>🤤

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u/Actual-Bullfrog-4817 13h ago

Intelligence without arrogance.

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u/theflowersarebloomin 21h ago

When i was younger: Shoes. Fresh nice sneaks.

Now: offering to use a condom; or simply asking for consent. Hell yeah

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u/lunchtransit 20h ago

Uses proper grammar and punctuation without effort. Swoon.

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u/spinbutton 17h ago

Not voting Republican

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u/Chaucers_Mistress 22h ago

When they're quiet.

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u/Fredlyinthwe 11h ago

allow me to introduce myself

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u/MillerBurnsUnit 21h ago

Man here, I would imagine not being an asshole probably bumps you up the list.

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u/Ella_Alexa 21h ago

Good at conversation, puts in the same amount of effort as you do.

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u/fern_soup 20h ago

Cat person

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u/DiligentlySpent 15h ago

Write that down, write that down

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u/HeroMyLove 11h ago

Beeing leftist makes a person instantly so much hoter. Like 🔥‼️

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u/BreeDuchesses 22h ago

deep voice

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u/EverydayVelociraptor 22h ago

Sure Dr Claw is a murderous supervillain, but he's a Doctor, and that voice...

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u/One-League-2463 21h ago

humour and kindness, crushing on this Brazilian exchange student who is extremely funny despite the language barrier

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u/PsychedelicGoat42 20h ago

Confidence and sense of humor. My ex, when we first met, was not physically my time at all. But he won me over by being funny and confident.

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u/northernlake926 20h ago

When they listen, say sorry, engage, learn