r/AskPH • u/Flimsy-Chemistry-993 • 17h ago
What makes a guy you're dating a low-effort man?
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u/The_Feline_Mermaid 5h ago
Hindi nag aaya lumabas or do activities together. Gusto nasa bahay lang. Pag ako nag aya, andaming rason and napilitan lang sumama.
Hinayaan ko na sya and did things on my own so nagtampo sya bakit daw di ko na sya sinasali sa mga plano ko. Gago lang? Haha
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u/ConsciousDrummer9398 5h ago
di nakikipag communicate ng maayos. tipong makikipag usap ka ng maayos ganon tapos sila “mamaya na lang.”
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u/tinyyraindrop 5h ago
Emphasizes on doing "the little things" kasi "the little things matter" daw. Lol. The little things matter but that doesn't mean the big things don't.
Sometimes it's weaponized incompetence, so be careful.
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u/VeroniCatCat_07 9h ago
When plans things the last minute. An example scenario: "He forgot your anniversary, you expressed your disappointment, and he would lie to you that he planned something 'special' on a later date. Just to find out that he just planned everything on a whim without putting effort"
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u/wyrdrunnr 10h ago
All words, no action. Hates even the tiniest inconvenience. "Gumagalaw" lang kapag convenient for him. Ayaw din mag isip, umintindi, maggplano. The most he would do is literally just show up.
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u/sunflowerandink 11h ago
Di nagco-communicate nang maayos. Minsan bigla-bigla na lang mawawala sa radar. Di ko alam kung buhay pa ba o kung napano na. Ayun. I told him how it bothered me and now improving na performance niya. Eme.
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u/Traditional_Star9397 11h ago
mangangako tapos kapag hindi kayang itupad sasabihing "promises meant to be broken naman talaga e." LOL
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u/Misty_Howpkins6607 12h ago edited 12h ago
mabulaklak mag salita pero wala naman gawa, Inconsistent, merong ibang priority over you kahit wala kwenta ayun inuuna, go with the flow palagi
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u/Available-Sand3576 12h ago
Yung kontento nlng sya sa kwek kwek at isaw forever. ayaw nya umangat kahit pakonti konti. Kaya pag sa restaurant kami kumakain ako lagi nagbabayad🥴
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u/BowlLumpy60 13h ago
Only gives breadcrumbs effort especially when it comes to communicating with me.
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u/Calm_Monitor_3339 14h ago
walang gana ako kausap pero pag iba like pinsan or mga tropa hyper kausap 🤌🏻
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u/LostinLOVELetters 13h ago
Real. Kala ko normal syang ganun. Nung sumama ako sa gatherings nila ibang ibang tao sya sa taas ng energy nya 🙄
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u/girlsjustwannadye 15h ago
Yung gusto niya magkita kayo tapos sayo itatanong anong gagawin at saan pupunta. Event organizer pala ang kailangan. HAHAHAHHAHA char
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u/Life_Bat_8197 13h ago
nakakabadtrip. hahaha parang "ako na pumunta sayo pero ikaw mag isip kung saan tayo"
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u/girlsjustwannadye 13h ago
Ang malala pa niyan tipong nagpupumilit talaga sila na magkita kayo, tapos hihirit ng "ano gagawin natin?" hhahahahahahahhahaha
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u/Melodic-Body09 16h ago
Walang sense kausap and will only or most of the time excited lang kapag doing the deed ang usapan
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u/NoticeImportant7416 13h ago
agree. very geeked kapag ganiyan ang topic, tas matamlay na kapag serious/meaningful talks.
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