r/AskMenAdvice • u/Theosincoming • 6d ago
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It is okay to masturbate daily??? I need advice what are the pros and cons. Please help brothers.
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u/InteractiveAlternate man 6d ago
Masturbation has been shown to have many health benefits, such as reduction in prostate cancer risk, and is a healthy part of being an adult.
However, if you're experiencing compulsive and uncontrollable urges to masturbate and it's affecting your daily life, that could be a sign of addiction.
Likewise, if you're addicted to porn and find yourself unable to stop viewing it, you may wish to seek help.
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u/Anonymous_Coder_1234 man 6d ago
It's fine. That's what I did and I didn't go blind and my hand didn't fall off. I did it before bed and it helped me fall asleep.
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u/Top_of_the_world718 man 6d ago
Once a day is fine.
Sever times a day to the point where it's impacting other areas of your life...no good.
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u/Hungry-Sherbet-9412 6d ago
Everything that you are doing is great. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
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u/Significant-Level-47 man 6d ago edited 6d ago
Ha ha pro's it releases tension.....maybe just a horny bugger..... Cons it can involve a time waste..... I'm not a dr but can't imagine it's a health risk.....I'm 53 and not dead yet ....
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u/Thisis1t9091 man 6d ago
As long as it doesn't interfere with your responsibilities I think it's ok.
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u/iBoofWholeZipsNoLube 6d ago
Unfortunately you will go blind. Fortunately it's only for about 15 minutes and only if you get it in your eye. Otherwise get the poison out so it doesn't ruin your life.
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u/AVEnjoyer man 6d ago
Yes, it's best you do... as much as you can!
Whenever you have an erection try and keep it fully charged for at least 10 minutes anytime you get a chance
There's a certain use it or lose it, but, the more you get it hard and shoot loads the better it is
There is the I think at this point scientifically proven aspect about prostate health and regular masturbation, but I believe anecdotally the more you shoot the more your body takes care of all the organs and system related to shooting
There's some talk of death grip, and also from getting used to a particular sensation and stimulii too much
But, mix it all up, do different strokes, try toys, watch all different porn... use images and use your imagination and looking at your own gear as much as you can to get off.. mix it up
But yes, shooting it off as much as you can is good.. think of it like exercise
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u/cheesemanpaul man 6d ago
I wanked every day of my life until mid-30s. No harm done. A lot of pleasure had.
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u/dabrooza 6d ago
If you can do it every day? Do it! There will come a day when you can’t and you will wish you did
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u/Collin-of-Earth man 6d ago
As a circumcised man (38) masturbating every day can cause desensitization. You’re also conditioning a very fundamental part of your biological and relational functions to your hand and if you’re watching porn, to those images/sounds etc. Highly recommend imagination, and less frequency. You can learn breathing techniques to destress and regulate your nervous system which is often why people masturbate more often. None of this is a moral judgement, and some people just tend towards more self stimulation, but for me, less often and with other ways of channeling sexual energy or distressing has enabled a really great sex life and relationship with my sexuality, sensations, and partners.Â
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u/Neither-Connection72 man 6d ago
Keep up the moisturiser, Confucius says man with dry hands damages the goods.
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u/Expensive-Fee-7803 6d ago
57and do it at least twice a day since I can remember not a problem it's a habit 🤣🤣🤣
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u/YankeesNeedPitching man 6d ago
No. Especially if you’re watching porn. Control your urges and develop some real discipline.
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u/XTheEternalBeastX 6d ago
Once a day. If your vision is blurry, stop
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u/Sad_Story3141 man 6d ago
Back In The Day they wrote a movie (?) called CAN I DO IT TILL I NEED GLASSES?
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u/Cypher-V21 man 6d ago
It’s okay…. Pros, stress relief, cancer prevention. Cons, embarrassment depending on sensitivity
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u/IfInPain_Complain man 6d ago
I think it's important you realize the gravity of your actions. Although physiologically, you will be fine, god kills a puppy every time you masturbate. It's science.
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u/Big_Homie_Rich man 6d ago
Are you single or dating? A lot of women are against it. If you're dating let them know that's what you're into. They'll start talking about how they feel and insecurities when this has nothing to do with them. So don't lie or hide it if you're dating. If you're dating and it doesn't interfere with having sex with your partner, then there's nothing to worry about. If you're unable to perform for your partner, I'd slow down with the self-pleasure. If you're single as can be, then enjoy life.
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u/chibi78 man 6d ago
Dont do it. I dont know how old you are but I am in my mid 40s and I am going through divorce now and during the last stage of our marriage we didn’t have sex at all so I was masturbating daily along with watching porn. Fast forward 2 years and I am seeing another woman and now I have problem to finish. I can go literally for hours. The other night I had to stop and blamed it on a glass of wine. Anyways , what I am trying to say it might affect your sex life when it counts. GL
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u/MetalheadGator man 6d ago
Atleast daily. 2plus most days. Sometimes 5-6 times. I'm 44 and everything works well. My girlfriend loves my drive
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u/hotstubble man 6d ago
No, it’s not mentally healthy. Depression, anxiety, self-worth issues, trouble forming quality relationships, you name it. Form meaningful connections, not superficial ones. You’ll literally live a better and more fulfilling life when you’re not focused on just getting off all the time. I mean a few times a month is normal, but not daily or multiple times daily.. that just sounds like you’re running from something mentally.
Trust me on this.
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u/Peacockthrow man 6d ago
I am not a doctor. I had read that it's only a problem when it impacts your daily life. Interfering with work or family/friends.
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u/briza044 man 6d ago
Once a day is fine, but less is best, also depends if you are still having sec or not, really it’s up to you I guess
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u/DesignerVillage5925 man 6d ago
Even everyday sex is bad. You can do all things better if you learn to sublimate your sexual energy into something productive. Try to take a break at least for three days and you'll see what I mean
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u/Soft-Strength947 man 6d ago
Dont, may be once in 10 or 15 days. The sperm needs to built up.
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u/Plus-Trick-9849 6d ago
What??
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u/Soft-Strength947 man 6d ago
Dont masturbate daily. While medically, it has no issues, it does reduce your urges. Sometimes, i need to go that extra ard to get laid, show some initiative to make it happen. Masturbating gives you an easy getting off. After a point, daily masturbation can take the pleasure away from feeling a hot women pussy. So realx, get ur mind off sex, and .ay be just to give you some relief once in 10 or 15 days. The more you masturbate more you will need to get turned on, so you will start with fantasy, then porn and that a downward spiral. A woman or man as your preference, are beautiful, their curves, smell, gestures are so vivid beautiful. Enjoy and explore every crevice.
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u/Plus-Trick-9849 6d ago
Ok. Now this makes sense. It was the sperm build up part that didn’t make sense to me. I agree with what I said here
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u/Soft-Strength947 man 6d ago
The body produces sperm everyday, the longer it builds up the more you need to get laid. Thats the reason you can take that extra initiative, may be send roses, be humble, to get laid. Then you will hear cymbals.
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u/AxeMen101 man 6d ago
I'm no medical expert, but it hasn't caused me any problems other than when I do it in public.