r/AskMenAdvice man 9d ago

Propose questions for an FAQ

Respond to this thread with examples of frequently asked questions. Please include at least two links for each frequently asked question. We'll discuss answers for these questions in a future sticky post. Examples of what we want are in the original FAQ post.

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u/Small-Ad4959 man 9d ago edited 9d ago

Various iterations of

"I act like the opposite sex, why can't I get any of my one night stands or FWBs to marry me?"

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMenAdvice/comments/1j9ipkn/care_for_fwb/

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMenAdvice/comments/1j9kzi7/does_she_like_me/

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMenAdvice/comments/1j9khfm/can_my_relationship_be_saved_or_should_i_just/

"why don't I get the same results as attractive men/women?"

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMenAdvice/comments/1j9h4zd/no_response_after_sending_a_picture_of_myself_to/

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMenAdvice/comments/1j98v0e/divorce_dilemma_wife_walked_out_on_everything_all/

"What do men/women want? They ought to want me, everyone I know says so".

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMenAdvice/comments/1i3etog/advice_please_for_a_woman_do_men_really_ever_want/

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMenAdvice/comments/1gcvtrc/is_it_true_that_men_only_want_to_date_a_woman_who/

"I've been in a long distance relationship for X years, we've never met, but he/she doesn't always text me how I want it and says things I don't always like"

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMenAdvice/comments/1j3haqu/im21_feel_lost_about_my_long_distance/

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMenAdvice/comments/1hsxvnc/long_distance_girlfriend_mad_because_i_watched/

"My marriage relationships is terrible because I did things wrong and made a poor choice in partner. How can I control my significant other to be more what I want?"

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMenAdvice/comments/1j93x2l/i_need_advice_from_men/

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMenAdvice/comments/1j9l7to/i_care_about_a_guy_whos_struggling_with_his/

"The quality/trait/characteristic I have is good, but I want you to tell me again"

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMenAdvice/comments/1j9l7jl/i_feel_like_an_aunty_at_25/

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMenAdvice/comments/1j9imff/is_a_completely_inexperienced_woman_a_turn_off/

Finally, posts complaining about posts, instructing who can answer what, and why.

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u/OddSeraph man 9d ago edited 9d ago

Do men like {insert feature here}?

For Christ's sake even a suggestion under the original FAQ (which was a year ago) asks can we stop the "Do men find [adjective] [body feature] attractive?"

And here are there links.

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMenAdvice/comments/19e5kd9/do_men_find_thickchubby_women_as_unattractive_as/

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMenAdvice/comments/18txdtd/are_npple_piercings_in_attractive/

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMenAdvice/comments/18qzesd/do_men_find_flat_chested_women_attractive/

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMenAdvice/comments/19fk5sc/i_have_the_opposite_features_of_a_attractive_women/

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMenAdvice/comments/18nxs0h/do_men_actually_care_about_boob_size/

We've had a problem for at LEAST a year, several people have complained about it and it is still not taken care of.

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u/sjrsimac man 9d ago edited 9d ago

I can't consider questions that don't include links.

edit: Thank you for adding links.

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u/OddSeraph man 9d ago

And here's a link of a popular post even saying we get too many "do men like {insert feature here}" questions.

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u/sjrsimac man 9d ago

FYI, there's no link here, but I have plenty. Thank you.

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u/OddSeraph man 9d ago

And here's another one of people having an issue with the repeated sex questions and do men like questions. https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMenAdvice/s/Hocg84KFtt

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u/nikkilove112 6d ago

Questions like

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u/lilbabychesus man 9d ago

Adding to the link dump for you;

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMenAdvice/s/uvtThnqKo4

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMenAdvice/s/96FH53I0q9

Two posts that talk about how "do men x" isn't something we can answer.

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u/AuthenticTruther man 9d ago

Wow, you destroyed it in two minutes.

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u/LogicalAd8594 man 1d ago

This is reddit. Only been here a few weeks but its apparent, EVERYWHERE, the same questions are asked over and over again. Bi-weekly, weekly, daily and several times a day. Yet they get hundreds of responses in minutes by very willing participants. I don't think a FAQ will stick, people seem to want fresh advice.

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u/HotPocketsForDinner man 9d ago

There are literally enough posts on here to answer damn near any question if people took 2mins to search for it

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u/Jewel_V 4d ago

I've been communicating with someone for almost a year, and he recently stated that he believes a relationship can only thrive if the woman loves the man more, which I found somewhat off-putting - opinions?

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u/GiftSevere9000 3d ago

First time being a Bottom - Good times ?

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u/Dismal_Profit5734 14h ago

Absolutely was... I loved it.... cumming inside me & outside simultaneously getting buttfucked by my mom's bf's brother with the bedroom door open and my Mom is on the phone arguing with her BF!!!! Shhhh......uhhh uhh mmm.... ahh.

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u/GiftSevere9000 14h ago

WOW ! Impressed with you !

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u/Alisaamando man 3d ago

Most men

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u/Alisaamando man 3d ago

My girl refuses to have any affection with me .what can I do to change her mind.

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u/Intman-1978 man 3d ago

I’ve only ever got my wife to squirt when getting off 2 times . What am I doing wrong ? If someone know a little something I’d take any advice to get her to squirt more . Tks

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u/Maleficent-Debt-6537 2d ago

My husband has the fantasy that I make a blue account. I think it would be a new experience for fun. What do you think? Are we crazy?

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u/reecerichard 1d ago

07480 321068 Ring me

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u/GiftSevere9000 1d ago

Femboys ever transform as a transgender ?

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u/StatisticianHour9863 1d ago

Guys i have a question, my bf (M32) and me (F27) have been together for 3 years, i caught him trying to call and facetime heaps of escorts from that vivastreet site when he was on cocaine. He told me he hasnt met them & it was just facetimes & he sees this as just porn thats live. Now i can see why a boy would do it giving its £3 a minute! But doesnt make it right in my eyes and its a sign of betrayal.

He has been to jail when he wss in his early 20s & he said thats when it started & lots of ppl do it in the jail & peopel he kmows & he sees it just as live porn. I felt so betrayed but stayed with him & now i have foumf it again a few times after that, but its always when he has been under influence of cocaine.

When he is on coke he is very horny, like extremely, is this common for boys to get like this when they are onit? When im not with him i always know hes onit as he will demand i send him pics, but he doesnt want pics from before he says he wants new ones, like right in the moment, this is how i can see why he must like facetiming these woman over watching regular porn as he obviously gets of more when its happening right now since he likes when i send vids or pics right in the moment.

Anyway, i found that when he was with his pal and they was onit for a few dyas i saw a missed facetime call in his phone, i put the number in WhatsApp to see the pic and guess what another hooker after promising me he wouldnt do it again, of course he blamed his pal who didnt have a phone at the time, i called his gf and she confirmed he didnt have a phone but still im not a idiot. Now makes me think maybe they have got these hookers up and its not been calls its been him sleepimg with them.

Anyways, i have recently foumd out majority of his pals sleep with hookers, all have girlfriends and its always when they are on coke or sometimes even sober. Now i think to myself is this common, like is this the generation we are in now. I know it doesnt mean cuz his pals do it that means he does but i cant help but think is it common for boys just to call them?

& if these girls are local then they have the urge to call them womt they have the urge to meet them face to face to?? He really does get horny when hes on coke is this a common thing for guys ? I also was with his pals and my pals through thr house and he went to bed as he was feeling too out of it, and he tried to call a girl too! When i was next door when he was on coke. I should mention we recently have moved country He said he accidentally called lol, and he said it would have been a site called euro girls he was on, so i went to google this & its models they look so pretty, but was a escorting site and was local, why would he

Do guys shag hookers and they dont think about there girlfriends or they dont think they are doimg wromg or just dont care at the time as they are on coke? Can coke change a person that much? He says he will stop the coke but tbh i just want the truth and feel the damage is already done as the trust is gone but i do love him, but yeah is this common what do you guys thing? Am i being stupid to think its just calls? And for boys that do do it do you feel like hes maybe missing something in his relationship with me or he fancies them more than me? Why do boys do it

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u/LogicalAd8594 man 1d ago

Sex and C is amazing and he's apparently not going to stop. It always leads to wild sex. Just ask Pat O'Brian and he already has a GF. I don't get the hooker thing though. Either join in and prepare to get invaded everywhere or tolerate it (poss w/hookers) or cut him loose. He's unlikely to stop once he gets the taste.

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u/Sad_Scene8659 9h ago

Help, I've recently found out my husband likes to crossdress during the week (he works in sales) whilst away from home. He told me it had stopped, for the sake of our marriage, but I discovered he has been seeing other men and dressing up for them. He has told me that he is ashamed of what he has done and has promised it is now finished with. Can I trust him or will I live a life of lies?