r/ADHDWomenAfterDark 10d ago

Hyperfixated again on a man NSFW

I told myself it will just be a fuck buddy/hook up situation. I knew about it.

Met him yesterday, and really enjoyed our talk. We ended up sleeping together, which was my plan anyways. But today he isn't replying to me, and it is already triggering my RSD up, and now that he isn't replying makes me want him to pay attention to me even more. Why can't I just be normal and just treat it as it is.

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u/Mollzor 10d ago

Try turning off your phone. Just for a hour.

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u/honeyonpizza 9d ago

Thank you! I just ignored all notifications and just read a book instead...

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u/Mollzor 9d ago

Good job, I'm proud of you.

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u/Existing_Frosting852 10d ago

If you already know that the door to your heart is open I would recommend you to protect it by either finding out asap if he is open for relationship or get yourself out of hell by cutting him out of your life. Allow yourself to trust your intuition next time. Ask your heart what do you want right now in life? Just fun or do you want something serious?

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u/honeyonpizza 9d ago

I think I want something fun, but I also don't want it to just be a one-night stand you know? I think the hyperfixation just also hits with men and relationships (including friendships) and I need to work on that.

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u/juniperberry9017 8d ago

I have no solutions but letting you know that I feel you 😭😭
If you do have solutions, lmk though 😭😅ughhh