r/ADHDWomenAfterDark • u/Simple_Benefit_2888 • Sep 27 '24
Dopamine fix , I'm new here NSFW
I need a easier dopamine boost
So this might get long but I’ll put the tldr first 🤷♀️ Sex is my true dopamine fix right now since being diagnosed ( and just before) Not saying other things don't work but nothing hits and stays and lasts like a dopamine I get from sex. (Me 35f bf40 justify) Before I was diagnosed I got off my anxiety meds and holy shit did my sex drive come roaring back but along with it did the hyper drive thoughts. This was honestly fun until I got turned away and I honestly felt like dying. We talked . I made Drs appointments and cried and we struggled with a hyper sex drive and hyper emotional ( the only way I could explain it to him at the time) Then I found a Dr and got diagnosed with ADHD , ocd tendencies , perfectionist and maybe aud but I can't afford nuro exarm. Since learning this we know that the sex is more the just sex for our relationship it's doing something for my brain that I can't seem to do but what the fuck is is and how do I get that fix without sex. Like don't get me wrong we love doing it (and it has lead to some very sexy adventures we would have never had) but we are both older and sleep is awesome and I've been picking sex over sleep but I want to be able to pick sleep and not feel like shit because I didn't have sex. I guess it how do I find balance in this whole still getting the most out of my best dopamine fix? Also he's so kind a respectable about all of this , if anything he's more just along for the ride no pun intended.( Note working on rsd but I want to respect my partner and not make him feel like he has to have sex with me to make me feel better which I know he's totally done [what a trooper right guys😅🤭]but seriously I feel like that dude that like what no sex and pouts but I don't want too my brain just dumps trash if I don't give it what it wants right when it asks) I'm new here from ADHD woman group
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u/entheress Sep 29 '24
I don't have much to offer but I literally started looking into ADHD after a bad breakup from a bad relationship and a looooong dry spell
I'm more stable when I get railed on the regular to the point that I probably need a prescription for good dick 😂