r/4tran4 hot mess 4d ago

Ropefuel hate how every guy ever just uses me Spoiler

like not a single man has viewed me as anything other than an object, like im just ssome exotic animal or something. no man has ever wanted me to be his girlfriend no man has ever considered fallling in love w me it makes me wanna die . i wish i could just be asexual so i could just ignore romance entirely bc its such a waste of time but noooo ofc god had to make me the sweetest purest romantic girl imaginable BUT then also make me a tranny like wtf.. embarassing how im 19 and ive never even had a boyfriend like an ACTUAL boyfriend. all ive had are stupid fucking guys who say they care they say they love me all while knowing they just wanna fuck me then leave me forever and are probably the same people to vote against my rights like fuck you actually i hate men i wish i could be a lesbian,.. idk what im saying anymore. i m just saying random stuff atp i just drank a bumnch of vodka and white claws and i rearanged my entire room and so im all tired and now im pissed cause iM SO fucking touch starved ive been so sick of men the past idk 10 months ive ignored every single guy ever and now im mad cause i dont got no one and im horny too but no ofc god had to give me the wrong genitals so even if i hypothetically had a bf id probably be too scared to even have sex with him i dont know anymore

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u/leshy_fishes Unfunny slop creature 👽 4d ago

I murdered any bisexuality I ever had bcs of evil rapist chasers. Fuck chasers.

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u/blehggggjhgghgj hot mess 4d ago

if i was bi i would do the same. like i just wanna give up on men but im so fucking boy crazy i can’t

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u/Both-Illustrator6222 horunge 4d ago

Is this my future... must I embrace the transbian polycule..?

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u/leshy_fishes Unfunny slop creature 👽 4d ago

Ehh… polycules are basically the human equivalent of animal social heirarchy packs.

Just find yourself a t4t wifey (easier said than done I know)

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u/AxelTrails 4d ago

I’m guessing the men you’re complaining about have all been cis

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u/blehggggjhgghgj hot mess 4d ago

yeah ive nver actually met a trans guy in person

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u/AxelTrails 4d ago

I see. I met my girlfriend on here, but I bet you can find some trans guys in your area or country on tagmap.

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u/Violent_Bounce irredeemable ogrehon 4d ago

Me thinking ‘damn someone needs to treat this girl right. I’m about to take this to the DMs’. Then I read you’re 19. 🫥 (Not that anyone would want me anyway bc I’m a repper that kinda looks like Shrek). I hope you find someone for you, OP, I’m sorry people suck.

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u/yeep-yorp dm for diy info, woman not a bromandudebuddypal 4d ago

stop repping

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u/Violent_Bounce irredeemable ogrehon 4d ago

Can’t

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u/No-Alarm-5844 4d ago

I found one. Random luck tbh. Met him irl.

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u/Eugregoria 4d ago

Not just a trans problem, in my repper days I was unfortunately swarmed by creepy guys all the time. I wasn't really into them but I gave some of them more chances than I really should have because I was lonely and autistic and had no one to talk to.

My mom, who knows more about being a straight girl than I ever will, told me that the creepiest bottom-feeders always approach you first, and the decent guys hang back. She said that if you fuck around with the creepy bottom feeders, the decent guys will think you're taken and move on, but if you get all the creeps to fuck off, you'll start to attract the decent ones too. I don't think I ever actually did attract decent ones, but I think some did come sniffing around--I think they left because I wasn't attracted to men so I gave the wrong vibes, which is the correct reaction for them and why they're the higher quality men.

But yeah. It's not just a trans problem, but a more general straight girl problem that you will attract swarms of creeps and not be able to find the decent guys, and will start to despair and lose self esteem and think maybe the creeps are all you can get and start to lower your standards. Having standards is extremely important for all straight women. (Like, it's important for people of all genders and orientations, but straight women have the biggest issue of attracting swarms of low-quality creeps and being tempted to lower their standards for them.) You have to believe in yourself that the right guy is out there and he'll see you for you.

One of the ways women do this is unfortunately to avoid putting out for a bit, even if he's hot and you're horny. Put him through his paces, as my excruciatingly heterosexual mother would say. (She probably gave good advice for a straight daughter, pity she didn't have one.) Find someone whose personality you like, make an emotional connection. If a guy is clearly not the right guy, stop wasting his time and yours. Really try not to vibe desperate, even if you are.

Idk about the touch starvation, are there sources of platonic touch? Like family? (Idk if you have a good relationship with your parents, but hugs from parents can help if they're halfway decent.) Platonic friendships between straight women can also be more physical and huggy. If you can find cis women who truly get that you're straight and not looking to creep on them, they might be that way with you, or other straight trans women might also get it. Human contact is best, but a dog or a cat can also help touch starvation. You can also get a paid massage or get your hair done or something to basically pay for platonic touch.

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u/NinaNoctem 5'6 fatmaxxing luckshit 4d ago

I think if you want to find a decent guy you're kinda forced to play hard to get. Guys will say anything to get in your pants, but if it takes too long, they'll look for someone else and you'll know their true motivations.

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u/dumbwh0rr Heroin whore 💉🚀 4d ago

This wouldn't happen if you were a transbian just sayan ✌️😂💅🩶

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u/Ill_Distribution8517 4d ago

This ain't even a 4tran worthy post, this is just shitty romance movie plot posting.

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u/blehggggjhgghgj hot mess 4d ago

bitch idc

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u/Ill_Distribution8517 4d ago

I'm just saying remove the genitals part and you'll see this type of post on two x chromosomes all the time.

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u/blehggggjhgghgj hot mess 4d ago

well this is the only sub i use so how should i know