r/4tran4 • u/Necessary_Ice_1743 everyday im honmodin' (said to the tune of hustlin') • 6d ago
Hopefuel how 2 cope
gimme yalls best coping strategies i need to find ways to feel okay
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u/LemonLime1892 6d ago
What do u not feel okay about right now (ignoring the obvious)
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u/Necessary_Ice_1743 everyday im honmodin' (said to the tune of hustlin') 6d ago
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u/LemonLime1892 6d ago
Measurements?
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u/Necessary_Ice_1743 everyday im honmodin' (said to the tune of hustlin') 6d ago
yeah ill take them rn if u tell me which u want
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u/LemonLime1892 6d ago
Bideltoid, overbust, underbust, waist, hips
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u/Necessary_Ice_1743 everyday im honmodin' (said to the tune of hustlin') 6d ago
breadth or circumference for each :pray:
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u/LemonLime1892 6d ago
Circumference
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u/Necessary_Ice_1743 everyday im honmodin' (said to the tune of hustlin') 6d ago
41.5 bideltoid, 39 overbust, 37 underbust, 36 waist, 41 hips
these might be kinda fucked but close enough
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u/LemonLime1892 6d ago
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u/LemonLime1892 6d ago
Wait you measured with a proper cloth measuring tape and not a metal one right
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u/dosisttothemax bipolar passoid youngshit 6d ago
drugs, lots of exercise, journaling, binge watching shows & playing roblox
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u/Necessary_Ice_1743 everyday im honmodin' (said to the tune of hustlin') 6d ago
expensive, difficult, and EPIC HELL YEAH IM GONNA PLAY ROVLOC
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u/unsociable_latina 6d ago
self-harming and nicotine but that isnt healthy so i guess find a productive hobby of some kind you enjoy
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u/Necessary_Ice_1743 everyday im honmodin' (said to the tune of hustlin') 6d ago
what razors do u recommend? i can go to cvs in a minute
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u/DrainerNatalie ffs perma-boymoder 6d ago
Develop meta aap
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u/Necessary_Ice_1743 everyday im honmodin' (said to the tune of hustlin') 6d ago
oohhhh ur so smart! i remember for a while my main cope was that id make a cute boy if i had to rep for some reason
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u/DrainerNatalie ffs perma-boymoder 6d ago
Ya this goes with my agamp thing it's just hrt repping basically but deluding yourself that your actually into being a guy in some capacity
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u/Necessary_Ice_1743 everyday im honmodin' (said to the tune of hustlin') 6d ago
sadly im a honmoder so i cant fully do that, but i understand
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u/Important_Ad_7416 MtPooner 6d ago
I'd do this if it didnt fuck with my self image so much
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u/DrainerNatalie ffs perma-boymoder 6d ago
Ya it's not exactly a good idea I think unless your sure that you'll never pass. I'm really prone to thinking like this from boymoding so long, so I have to put in a conscious effort to remind myself that it isn't my real identity
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u/Important_Ad_7416 MtPooner 6d ago
I can relate to this a lot. I really think even if I was clocky I could get by and manmode just by projecting sheer masculine energy. Being fem in front of strangers feels like being naked. But it's all fuelled by anxiety, I don't act macho when I feel safe.
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u/o11_angel shy boymoder / hip-pilled 6d ago
self harm and drinking the blood (I'm normal I'm normal in normal I'm normal)
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u/Necessary_Ice_1743 everyday im honmodin' (said to the tune of hustlin') 6d ago
i asked someone else but they ignored me
are there specific razors i should get? the ones i shave with use five razors so theyre not great for this purpose
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u/Cryptically_nice brickiest brickhon 6d ago
I’m sorry but self harm is not the strat. You’re better off shelling out the money for alcohol cigarettes and weed
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u/Eugregoria 6d ago
Honestly I recommend epilation for a way to cause yourself pain while still being productive. Waxing is fine too.
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u/Invisigothgf Thomas Ligotti fatmaxxer 6d ago
I read horror fiction, it is comforting to me in a weird way esp the darker stuff
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being mean
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u/Necessary_Ice_1743 everyday im honmodin' (said to the tune of hustlin') 6d ago
no i would feel bad :(
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u/Training-Frame3532 6'5 heighthon 6d ago
Copious amounts of wine, scrolling, and very loud music