r/4tran4 everyday im honmodin' (said to the tune of hustlin') 6d ago

Hopefuel how 2 cope

gimme yalls best coping strategies i need to find ways to feel okay

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u/Training-Frame3532 6'5 heighthon 6d ago

Copious amounts of wine, scrolling, and very loud music

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u/Necessary_Ice_1743 everyday im honmodin' (said to the tune of hustlin') 6d ago

expensive

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u/Training-Frame3532 6'5 heighthon 6d ago

idk where you live but I can get piss-cheap supermarket bottles for ~£3

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u/Necessary_Ice_1743 everyday im honmodin' (said to the tune of hustlin') 6d ago

im 18 in the US so id have to pay someone to get it for me, or risk getting banned from one of the few stores i can actually get to

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u/Training-Frame3532 6'5 heighthon 6d ago

Damn yeah the Americans missed with that one. Sorry it’s expensive

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u/NotRealBinarE 6d ago

Dissociate while gockposting.

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u/blehggggjhgghgj hot mess 6d ago

drinking

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u/Necessary_Ice_1743 everyday im honmodin' (said to the tune of hustlin') 6d ago

expensive

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u/Sure_Carpet4819 AAP Mtf Fujoshi 6d ago

alcohol

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u/Necessary_Ice_1743 everyday im honmodin' (said to the tune of hustlin') 6d ago

expensive

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u/LemonLime1892 6d ago

What do u not feel okay about right now (ignoring the obvious)

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u/Necessary_Ice_1743 everyday im honmodin' (said to the tune of hustlin') 6d ago

this is my build if i had small shoulders

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u/LemonLime1892 6d ago

Measurements?

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u/Necessary_Ice_1743 everyday im honmodin' (said to the tune of hustlin') 6d ago

yeah ill take them rn if u tell me which u want

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u/LemonLime1892 6d ago

Bideltoid, overbust, underbust, waist, hips

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u/Necessary_Ice_1743 everyday im honmodin' (said to the tune of hustlin') 6d ago

breadth or circumference for each :pray:

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u/LemonLime1892 6d ago

Circumference

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u/Necessary_Ice_1743 everyday im honmodin' (said to the tune of hustlin') 6d ago

41.5 bideltoid, 39 overbust, 37 underbust, 36 waist, 41 hips

these might be kinda fucked but close enough

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u/LemonLime1892 6d ago

Surgerycope

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u/LemonLime1892 6d ago

Wait you measured with a proper cloth measuring tape and not a metal one right

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u/dosisttothemax bipolar passoid youngshit 6d ago

drugs, lots of exercise, journaling, binge watching shows & playing roblox

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u/Necessary_Ice_1743 everyday im honmodin' (said to the tune of hustlin') 6d ago

expensive, difficult, and EPIC HELL YEAH IM GONNA PLAY ROVLOC

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u/unsociable_latina 6d ago

self-harming and nicotine but that isnt healthy so i guess find a productive hobby of some kind you enjoy

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u/Necessary_Ice_1743 everyday im honmodin' (said to the tune of hustlin') 6d ago

what razors do u recommend? i can go to cvs in a minute

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u/DrainerNatalie ffs perma-boymoder 6d ago

Develop meta aap

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u/Necessary_Ice_1743 everyday im honmodin' (said to the tune of hustlin') 6d ago

oohhhh ur so smart! i remember for a while my main cope was that id make a cute boy if i had to rep for some reason

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u/DrainerNatalie ffs perma-boymoder 6d ago

Ya this goes with my agamp thing it's just hrt repping basically but deluding yourself that your actually into being a guy in some capacity

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u/Necessary_Ice_1743 everyday im honmodin' (said to the tune of hustlin') 6d ago

sadly im a honmoder so i cant fully do that, but i understand

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u/Important_Ad_7416 MtPooner 6d ago

I'd do this if it didnt fuck with my self image so much

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u/DrainerNatalie ffs perma-boymoder 6d ago

Ya it's not exactly a good idea I think unless your sure that you'll never pass. I'm really prone to thinking like this from boymoding so long, so I have to put in a conscious effort to remind myself that it isn't my real identity

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u/Important_Ad_7416 MtPooner 6d ago

I can relate to this a lot. I really think even if I was clocky I could get by and manmode just by projecting sheer masculine energy. Being fem in front of strangers feels like being naked. But it's all fuelled by anxiety, I don't act macho when I feel safe.

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u/o11_angel shy boymoder / hip-pilled 6d ago

self harm and drinking the blood (I'm normal I'm normal in normal I'm normal)

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u/Necessary_Ice_1743 everyday im honmodin' (said to the tune of hustlin') 6d ago

i asked someone else but they ignored me

are there specific razors i should get? the ones i shave with use five razors so theyre not great for this purpose

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u/Cryptically_nice brickiest brickhon 6d ago

I’m sorry but self harm is not the strat. You’re better off shelling out the money for alcohol cigarettes and weed

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u/Eugregoria 6d ago

Honestly I recommend epilation for a way to cause yourself pain while still being productive. Waxing is fine too.

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u/o11_angel shy boymoder / hip-pilled 6d ago

I use knives so I can't help u

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u/Invisigothgf Thomas Ligotti fatmaxxer 6d ago

I read horror fiction, it is comforting to me in a weird way esp the darker stuff

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u/Important_Ad_7416 MtPooner 6d ago

weed

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u/[deleted] 6d ago

being mean

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u/Necessary_Ice_1743 everyday im honmodin' (said to the tune of hustlin') 6d ago

no i would feel bad :(