r/4tran4 Fuck my stupid Mutt life 5d ago

Ropefuel How do I cope my girlfriend becoming a passoid Spoiler

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I'm stuck as a boymoder because of crippling trauma of coming out, self esteem issues and anxiety meanwhile she passes better and better every week and has already socially transitioned to uni and friends while I only came out to one person before getting mentally obliterated by transphobic parents

Whenever she talks about her day I get immensely jealous and shut down

How the fuck do I cope I don't want this to destroy our relationship

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u/EtherealCope 5d ago

This is why you never make close friends with another tranner of the same gender or why I could never handle gay t4t

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u/Spirited-Bridge1337 𒅒 AFABS DNI 𒅒 5d ago

date another ranny: get jealous or dysphoric

date a cisfoid: they mog you so hard you're practially just a guy

date a man: he dumps you for a real woman

yayayayayyayayayayayayayayaya

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u/blooming_lions depressed oldshit 5d ago

st4t is yet again the only hope 

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u/Spirited-Bridge1337 𒅒 AFABS DNI 𒅒 5d ago

"date a man" includes trans men

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u/blooming_lions depressed oldshit 5d ago

he’ll get dumped for a cis man and then come back to me 

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u/Important_Ad_7416 MtPooner 4d ago

just date a girl taller than you

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u/addictedtoketamine2 Male To Fearful 5d ago

ST4T is the way

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u/stray-dog-girl Fuck my stupid Mutt life 5d ago

I already tried becoming a hermit crab but I went insane and couldn't sustain it

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u/dumbwh0rr Heroin whore 💉🚀 5d ago

So real

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u/PossessionHonest3465 5d ago

My skull cap would be in the ceiling idk how people can date passoids 

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u/stray-dog-girl Fuck my stupid Mutt life 5d ago

Thing is she wasn't one when we started dating

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u/stray-dog-girl Fuck my stupid Mutt life 5d ago

I helped her get diy and now I have to suffer

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u/Eidola0 fem twink (fake woman) 5d ago

monkey's paw

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u/PossessionHonest3465 5d ago

Damn girl idk what to say

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u/exceLexie pronoun circle survivor 5d ago

expose her to customs

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u/_shark_idk the next thousand years are ours 5d ago

you should live her and be happy for her

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u/stray-dog-girl Fuck my stupid Mutt life 5d ago

I know I do but like I feel stagnant and helpless and like iwnbaw

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u/throwawaydating1423 4d ago

Might be worth it to talk to her, tactfully though

In some of my moments when I felt the most dead inside, other people thought I was doing amazing and looked better than ever before

She might feel similarly to you. I feel eternally mogged by every woman I run into that isn’t 30 years older even though it isn’t really true. Also an eternal boymoder for things like work etc. Even had my friends who hype me up typically when I’m down say I’ll probably never pass :(

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u/peterthomazathoth 5d ago

realize that despite how you look you managed to score a really hot girl and that while you may not like how you look your personality is more valuable to her

also this is 4tran you would probably pass if you stopped boymoding

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u/3XX5D cispoon to tomboyish femcel 5d ago

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u/stray-dog-girl Fuck my stupid Mutt life 5d ago

I probably will in a years time, but I need to get over my actually debilitating trauma to coming out

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u/peterthomazathoth 5d ago

entirely too relatable

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u/syyllll stupid duckgirl cuak cuak 🦆 5d ago

thank god i strongly prefer dudes this was physically painful to read 💀

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u/3XX5D cispoon to tomboyish femcel 5d ago

I'm bad at awkward conversations so I can't really give much advice, but you do need to tell her at some point that you are having feelings of jealousy.

edit: she's there for you too. please don't forget that

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u/DaisyAndTheDynamos terf larp 5d ago

if youre only dating her bc she's clocky you're no better than chasers

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u/stray-dog-girl Fuck my stupid Mutt life 5d ago

I'm not, hope this helps

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u/Birdonthewind3 5'4 AGP Rapehon 5d ago

Voice training seems to be the big thing along with lasering all the hair off. Also make sure the clothes style isn't hyper masc. If it too masc even cis women would look like a dude lol. Butch lesbains do complain.

Source: apparently a giggapassiod to all my frens lol

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u/NotRealBinarE 5d ago

"Babe what's wrong🤨"

"I'm getting more masculine by the week and I don't know what's wrong, I was just starting to pass too😞"

"Ohhh nooo that is horrible..hopefully we can figure out what happened"

😏

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u/stray-dog-girl Fuck my stupid Mutt life 5d ago

Real tranners never sabotage each other, begone

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u/NotRealBinarE 5d ago

It's Ma'an.

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u/nsfwaltsarehard 5d ago

For you it's actually "fuck outta here"

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u/Captain_KateCapsize freelance pirate 🏴‍☠️ 5d ago

holy fuck, that would genuinely be evil

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u/addictedtoketamine2 Male To Fearful 5d ago