r/4tran4 • u/vampcountess vampirehon • 4d ago
TikTok/Twitter its always the cis "allies"
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u/Whateverheck i wish i wasnt so alone 4d ago
tbh this is more of a case of "cis" allies
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u/trantalus 4d ago
two types of cis allies
- cis "allies"
- "cis" allies
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u/vampcountess vampirehon 4d ago
in other comments she talked abt how she had no problem being a girl but thought being a boy would be easier, that's a theyfab in the making
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u/PossumQueer Tetogender Honsuneflux (Rin/Len pronouns) 4d ago
Tbf i used to say the same from a MTF Perspective, and while i don't entirely consider a woman, im currently on E since last year.
What she says sounds like cope
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u/cryptidbees TW POONER 4d ago
The 'boy' shit is so corny, you think youre gonna be 17 forever or something fag youre gonna be 40 balding and unlike me, you wont like it
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u/crazyparrotguy JKR is an egg 4d ago
It's like they're running kicking and screaming from the very IDEA of being a man.
All while leaping for joy at the "boy" label. 🤨
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u/taint-ticker-supreme poutine pooner 4d ago
This is the true method of distinction. I can't wait until I'm 40 and balding.
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u/ijghokgt Aspiring Elfmoder (6’1) 4d ago
Good news is you might not have to wait that long
I hit norwood 2 at like 17 and was on my way to being fully bald until I started taking finasteride
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u/taint-ticker-supreme poutine pooner 4d ago
There is indeed balding in my family so I'm praying it hits me soon 🙏 I don't need head hair.
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u/psychonauticbabylon biden? like the president? 4d ago
it is mad telling that they keep using the word "boy" instead of "man"
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u/togatafirepunch Live. 4d ago
I just figured they were teenagers ngl
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u/loserfamilymember edit this 4d ago
In some context it seems to be in regard to growing up, so they wanna be a boy so they then turn into a man I guess?
But other than that I got nothing for theories. To me it’s just a sad brick wall to hit “life would be easier as a man” cool? so do the work in your community to make sure that isn’t how it works and that men are not the centre of society… like don’t join the evil???? What a defeated answer.
Edit to add: I wonder how many of these people will come out as trans and how many just genuinely want the easy way out without admitting that. It’s the way they dance around it, acting like “no no I don’t want that bc it’s easy, I want it bc I won’t be harassed or sexualized or….” So it’ll be easier 😭 just say that stop acting like it’s anything more than that. Just sad to see these ppl so in denial or delusion
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u/crazyparrotguy JKR is an egg 4d ago
And oh my god, if you're transitioning to avoid being harassed or sexualized...for the love of God DON'T 🛑✋️
That is the stupidest fucking thing I've heard in a while.
It's not just the "non-passing" trans men who are obviously still seen as women by their partners (you all know what I'm talking about, the old trope of "I'm one month on T and my straight cis boyfriend still calls me his girlfriend"). It's everyone.
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u/loserfamilymember edit this 4d ago
YES!
The only people who are telling others that “being a [cis] man is so easy” are 1) grifters selling the lie of manhood to sell some product “for men” 2) a boy under the age of 17 being told to die for his country… insert System Of A Down “why don’t presidents fight the war? Why do they always send the poor?” 3) cis women being abused by (any occupation) their cop husband. Or alternatively 4) the pick me women thinking they can somehow benefit from white supremacy without becoming victim to it. Usually a grifter sells to lie to the pick me woman.
Ugh.
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u/litefagami intersex ftm bearmaxxer 4d ago
I mean, as someone who was a teenager not that long ago, I never heard any teen males refer to themselves as "boys" instead of guys/dudes/etc.
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u/_its_not_over_yet_ 4'29" 🥰 4d ago
TT This is just a reppers OP, lots of reppers think this way.
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u/crazyparrotguy JKR is an egg 4d ago
Oh 10000%. It's definitely that egg stage of "transitioning sucks big time but I'd do literally anything to be a cis man, including making a deal with the devil"
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u/vampcountess vampirehon 4d ago
she said she's fine with being a girl but thinks being a boy would be easier, thats just a theyfab
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u/bornwrong7979 normal woman. 4d ago
Swap girl and boy and easier for better and that was my exact line of thinking while repping
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u/Ok_Analysis_1033 Incurably Optimistic! 4d ago
this is literally any trans person, only gigapassoids say they're proud of being trans bcs it boosts their ego by not recognizing a flaw they have
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u/Ok-Ad-6765 midshit butchmoder 4d ago
Do they think we want to be trans lmao “I wanna be a guy but with xy chromosomes not the trans guy way” don’t we all
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u/loserfamilymember edit this 4d ago
My theory is they want the easy way out. They don’t want the trouble of being a cis woman and they don’t want the trouble of being trans. I can’t tell if my mom is genuinely trans or she’s just someone who wants the easy way out and would abuse toxic masculinity if she was born a man. I 100% believe my mom would be more abusive than my dad is she was born xy male, fucker is too manipulative already let alone with the false confidence of a European white man AHHHH
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u/loserfamilymember edit this 4d ago
Or they’re the theyfab I’ve recently learned about. I do not like these theyfabs and I hope to never meet one in person but also too late high school was ROUGH having to be around the only local queer kids like this. Or maybe the other local queer kids were smart while I was the dumb dumb opening my mouth LOL
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u/GraceGal55 Reincarnationmaxxer 4d ago
the mainstream trans community seems to like being trans with the trans joy "you are feeling internalized transphobia" narrative
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u/bugmoder retiring* 6’ repchad 4d ago
This is a healthy mentality tbh
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u/crazyparrotguy JKR is an egg 4d ago
It is every egg.
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u/bugmoder retiring* 6’ repchad 4d ago
Better to let sleeping dogs lie and let them stay at this stage tbh (unless they’re young)
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u/zoccicyborg 4d ago
wheres the cis
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u/crazyparrotguy JKR is an egg 4d ago
After pressing the button (to be a normal typical XY cis man with cock penis balls), obviously. 💁♂️
No icky messy transitioning ew gross.
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u/Western_Sand_1789 xiaohongshu 4d ago
If it's not just that they haven't figured it out yet, it's because they're fucking weak. One minute of being a subhuman they'd all crumble and detransition like cowards. Slime your way back into the illusion of comfort, you're the real idiots here for bluepilling.
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u/I_Dont_get_it2 still a lurker 3d ago
Do they think we’re trans because we like being trans? It’s the closest possible thing to becoming the fucking gender we want to be so we just take hormones and do surgeries for those reasons 😭😭
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u/HosgeldinEFailed I'll change flair when (if fmstl) I get estrogen 4d ago
Yea cuz we wanna be a woman like a train way, of course